The Mansion at Oyster Bay

Updated January 26, 2024

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Celebrate in One Hundred Years of Majesty

Situated in Long Island, NY, The Mansion at Oyster Bay is a historic wedding venue brimming with luxury and refinement. Set against the backdrop of 120 acres of greenery, it combines timeless charm with stunning surroundings to create an unforgettable celebration. Complete with a full range of services to avail of, this beautiful country manor has everything a couple could need for an enchanting celebration. Originally designed by renowned architects Delano and Aldrich, this stunning Gold Coast estate was constructed in 1918. Throughout the decades, it went through a number of owners and inhabitants, and is one of the few properties of its kind that still stands today. Many of the decorative elements have survived since the 1920s when they were added by the owner, art collector Alyssa Mellon Bruce. An avid traveler and socialite, Mellon Bruce hosted many Gatsby-style parties throughout the 1920s and ‘30s, and this atmosphere survives today. An air of elegance and comfort exudes throughout the charming setting of The Mansion at Oyster Bay. Complete with enchanting ballrooms and exquisite furnishings, it invites guests to take a trip back in time to an era of sophistication and majesty. While retaining the refined atmosphere of days gone by, it has been updated with a host of modern conveniences to create a commodious ambience full of refined splendor. The Mansion at Oyster Bay offers a dedicated service staff and a full range of amenities to cater to each couple’s unique wedding vision. Accommodating up to 350 wedding attendees, this stunning estate has a variety of spaces to choose from depending on guestlist requirements. Each couple is provided with an in-house planner to ensure that every need is met. Together they will help you create a comprehensive wedding timeline and arrange everything from to-do lists to seating plans. Couples are also invited to liaise with Lessings, the venue’s in-house caterers who have been providing fine dining to New Yorkers for over 125 years. They help each couple to create their own customized reception menu, featuring a variety of continental options as well as sports-bar fare. A comprehensive list of preferred vendors is also available including photographers, florists, and DJs. Whatever your wedding vision may be, this venue provides over a century of style and service to create an experience you and your guests will never forget.

Amenities & Details

Covered Outdoors Space, Dressing Room, Handicap Accessible, Indoor Event Space, Liability Insurance, On-Site Accommodations, Outdoor Event Space, Reception Area, Wireless Internet

Guest Capacity

300+

Ceremony Types

Civil Union, Commitment Ceremony, Elopement, Interfaith Ceremony, Non-Religious Ceremony, Religious Ceremony, Second Wedding, Vow Renewal Ceremony

Venue Service Offerings

Bar & Drinks, Cakes & Desserts, Food & Catering, Planning, Rentals & Equipment, Service Staff

Settings

Ballroom, Country Club, Estate, Historic Venue, Park, Rooftop

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Pricing for The Mansion at Oyster Bay

Option	Value
Starting Cost	Moderate
Cost Starting
Price Range	$12,550 - $20,700+
Couples Usually Spend	$16,650
Peak Season Months
Peak Season Cost	$12,550 - $20,700+
Peak Season Reception Cost
Peak Season Ceremony Cost	$500
Peak Season Bar Service Cost
OffSeason Months
OffSeason Cost	$12,550 - $20,700+
OffSeason Reception Cost
OffSeason Ceremony Cost
OffSeason BarService Cost

The Mansion at Oyster Bay Reviews

Lisa Garibaldi (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

amazing, amazing, amazing. Working with everyone at the mansion at oyster bay was easy and seamless. I truly felt that everyone was invested in my wedding and wanted everything to go exactly how I wanted. Working with Jennifer for all the planning was smooth and wonderful - she was a joy to work with. Working with Mike on all of the details for the specific day and for the actual night of my wedding was so fun! He was amazing and made sure everything was exactly how I wanted. Estee was so attentive and so sweet to work with. The food was amazing!! We got so many compliments on how great everything was! The actual wedding night could not have been any more perfect. Everyone worked so hard to make sure my day was amazing, I did not need to worry about a single thing. I had the time of my life and I recommend that everyone gets married here!! The vibe was PERFECT! Loved every second :) Huge thank you to Mike, Jennifer and Estee for giving me the most amazing day.
Reviewed on 20-11-2023

Kathryn McCrudden (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

I got married 8.12.2023!I wanted to post and RAVE about the Mansion!! Emily was my go to girl since the start and she was lovely, patient, and accommodating plus she was so very sweet!! We had Mike as my maître d’ and he was fantastic! We met Mike at our tasting and I wanted a spicy margarita as one of my signature cocktails, the first one we disliked.. so Mike muddled fresh jalapeños and made sure that it was perfect! Which it was, and my guest raved about that cocktail day of the wedding! Mike definitely has an eye for perfection, and wants your day to be smooth and perfect! My bridal attendant was so so sweet, to be honest I didn’t need her as much because I was on the dance floor the WHOLE NIGHT!! We got married at St. Patricks in Huntington which is only 10 mins away from the venue! We didn’t get ready at the Mansion, we got ready at of our parent’s home. Though after the ceremony we got to the venue two hours before cocktail hour and the bridal suite was perfect for us to relax, eat, and refresh!The food was AMAZING!! The cocktail hour, people were raving about how much food there was, and how it was so delicious! For the entrée’s we did the short rib, teriyaki salmon, and porcini crusted chicken (people are still talking about this chicken and how DELISH it was). We did the after party on the rooftop after the reception… when I say go do the after party .. DO IT!! It kept the fun going plus having it at the venue you will not lose many people! I just had a party playlist and connected to their sonos speaker which was great! The rooftop and bar is so beautiful it makes you feel like you are at a totally new place! The after party food was also the perfect late night munchies! My husband and I still rave about The Mansion and I highly recommend to use for your wedding, shower, any event in your life!
Reviewed on 19-01-2024

Georgie Dorizas (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

Our wedding was everything we dreamed and more! The mansion was absolutely magical and the attention to detail and professionalism from the entire staff really took all the stress off us so we could fully enjoy the night. Everything came together so beautifully and perfectly; the charm and elegance of the old mansion were so special and exactly what we wanted in our wedding venue. We really couldn't have asked for a more gorgeous setting for the evening. From the beginning of the planning process through the end of the day, Jennifer (our main point of contact), Mike (our maitre'd) and Estie (our bridal attendant) were all such a pleasure to work with and were so accommodating on anything we asked for or needed.
Reviewed on 01-12-2023

Carley Cori (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

I don't think we can say enough good things about The Mansion. From the very first time we stepped foot in there all the way through to the end of our wedding, they were flawless. They made this entire experience beautiful and stress-free. The Mansion itself is stunning. The food is incredible. The staff is kind and efficient. Prior to our wedding day, Emily Virgil was fantastic. She was patient with us and worked with us to create our perfect wedding. And then to see her the day of our wedding was a very meaningful cherry on top. She was genuinely happy for us and together we created the perfect day. Mike, our Maitre D', was perfect. He was cool, calm and collected the entire time. No task was too big or too small. He thought of everything and took care of everything. We would recommend Mike to anybody getting married. EVERYBODY was impressed with Mike. He really enhanced our entire day. And our bridal attendant, Natalie, was equally as amazing and was with us every step of the way, as well! Really above and beyond.
Reviewed on 30-11-2023

Katrina Ippoliti (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

We just got married on 10.13.23 at the Mansion at Oyster Bay. We can not say enough great things about the venue, staff, and food. Our wedding was everything we could have dreamed of and more. Jennifer was our sales manager, Mike was our Maitre D, and Estee was our bridal attendant. We can’t thank them enough for all the hard work and patience on the wedding day and throughout the past year to make our wedding so special. The staff went above and beyond to make sure we had the most magical day. Our friends and family were absolutely blown away by the venue, food, and staff. We will be recommending the MOB to all friends and family that are planning weddings.
Reviewed on 30-10-2023

Jennifer Cocozzo (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

Jennifer, Mike & Shannon were my ABSOLUTE DREAM TEAM! Jennifer was always available through the entire process for any questions or concerns! Mike was my Maitre d’ and Shannon was my Bridal Attendant and both of them were right by my side no matter what I needed or required! The entire staff at Lessings is nothing less than amazing! Thank you all for the amazing wedding that you all helped deliver on! I couldn’t have asked for a better team behind me as I embark on my new life as a married woman! 🩷 Much love to all!!!
Reviewed on 26-10-2023

Dana Sullivan (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

The Mansion was the most perfect place to get married. Everyone loved the vibe, the food, and the drinks. Mike the maître d’ was absolutely amazing and Estee the bridal attendant was incredible. We truly had the best night of our lives.
Reviewed on 03-10-2023

Michael Brettler (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

We had an amazing wedding celebration at the Mansion. Emily was fabulous with her guidance putting together the event including the menu and Mike the Maitre D was amazing the night of the event. The food was tasted great, the venue ideal, and the service top notch. They did everything to make sure we were happy and our party turned out even better than we expected.
Reviewed on 23-06-2023

Claudia Azevedo (other) 5 out of 5 Rating

I first toured The Mansion at Oyster Bay in 2020 when my sister was looking for a wedding venue. While she didn’t end up going with the Mansion, I never forgot about it. It was absolutely beautiful and I loved Gary, the sales manager at the time. When it came to venue shopping for my wedding, I knew I had to go back and see it. We celebrated our wedding at The Mansion at Oyster Bay on 4/15/23, and we couldn’t be happier. When I walked into the ballroom, I truly couldn’t believe it was ours for the night. Mike, the Maitre’d and Natalie, the bridal attendant were awesome. They did everything in their power to ensure the day went as smoothly as possible. They’d check on us often to see if we needed anything to drink or eat, they guided us through the ceremony, cake cutting, etc. They even packed up food for us to take home. It was difficult to find the appetite and time to eat on our wedding day so we’ve really enjoyed trying all the different dishes this past week. Our guests only had positive things to say about the food and service. We really couldn’t have pictured the day going any better than it did.
Reviewed on 23-04-2023

Alicia Freking (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 12-03-2023
The venue was absolutely beautiful, everything I wanted for our special day. Jennifer was our sales person and main contact, she was very patient and extremely helpful. Our Maitre d' Mike helped to make our day super smooth and everything went well. Enough can not be said about how delicious the food was! We went with the Gorgonzola Fondue Filet Mignon, Lemon Chicken, and Teriyaki Salmon. The passed desserts were a big hit (we have kids at the wedding and they loved it).
Reviewed on 28-03-2023

Brittany Russell (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 14-01-2023
Thank you to the whole team at the Mansion for helping our wedding go off incredibly smoothly!! The Mansion is a beautiful venue with an incredible staff that were very helpful leading up to our wedding (though the sales person did change a few times, we worked closely with Emily who was kind, responsive and professional). They team they have the day of the wedding is nothing short of amazing, they have everything so coordinated to help make the day perfect (and a major shoutout to the lovely bridal attendant and MD). The food is incredible as well, and it is worth noting that the team was flexible and able to provide truly anything we asked. We would select this venue ten times over again!
Reviewed on 15-02-2023

Kaitlin Jacob (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 28-01-2023
The venue is stunning and everything ran so smoothly! The staff was great and the food is incredible - many of my guests have said it was the best food they've ever had at a wedding. Highly recommend!
Reviewed on 07-02-2023

Samantha Becker (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 06-11-2022
Although it seemed a little hectic leading up to our wedding with some salespeople and contact changes, the day of our wedding went so smooth and not a detail was missed. Mike the maitre'd and Natalie the bridal attendant were absolutely incredible. Anything that we needed, they handled or had already taken care of! There are not enough words to say how amazing the two of them were. All of our guests also said how great the rest of the staff was as well. Besides just being a beautiful venue, the service the day of the wedding was just impeccable.
Reviewed on 01-01-2023

Bryan Plutchok (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 19-11-2022
Everything about our wedding was perfect. Staff, venue, food, execution. We had the wedding of our dreams and didn’t even need a wedding planner.
Reviewed on 21-12-2022

Kelly Lee (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 03-12-2022
THANK YOU to the entire team at the Mansion at Oyster Bay for the wedding of our dreams!! Everything was beautiful, seamless, and beyond anything that we could have ever imagined. The attention to detail from the entire staff(especially Mike & Estee x 2) exceeded every expectation we had. The night was one that we will truly never forget! All of our guests are raving about the staff, food, and beautiful venue. We can’t thank you enough!!
Reviewed on 08-12-2022

Linda Annicelli (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 13-11-2022
To say our wedding day was perfect is an absolute understatement! From the time I arrived at the Mansion I was treated like a \"queen\". The attentiveness that Natalie and Mike showered on me (us) was beyond my expectations. I never had to worry about a thing! Our guests were overwhelmed with the beauty of the Mansion, the cocktail hour, the food, and the waitstaff. Everyone went above and beyond to make our day spectacular. We received so many compliments on the day and we are still getting emails saying it was the best wedding they had been to! Your attention to detail, planning our wedding for us, and making sure that all the little changes we made were executed was outstanding. I (we) can't thank you all enough for making our wedding the best day of our lives! We are looking forward to planning another event with you in the future. Thank you again!
Reviewed on 23-11-2022

Athziri Gerhard (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 27-10-2022
I am a 10/27/2022 Bride. We had the wedding of our dreams at The Mansion at Oyster Bay. We are still raving about how great the staff is. Mike and Natalie make your day run as smooth as it can get. They have a way to know what you need before you do, a big shoutout to them. Estee was the last manager we worked with, she was awesome. I cannot recommend this place enough. The food is to die for and you get UNREAL photographs on their grounds. Completely in love with our choice.
Reviewed on 30-10-2022

Meredith Guiness (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 22-05-2022
My husband and I had our wedding celebration at The Mansion at Oyster Bay and we could not be happier with how the event went! Beyond the location being absolutely stunning and the food being absolutely delicious, the team led by Emily and Mike were A+. They were incredibly attentive and detail oriented then other venues and their communication leading up to the event was fantastic - especially in terms of talking through all logistics from event flow, set up, and take down.
Reviewed on 30-10-2022

Vivian Zhen (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 15-09-2022
I could not recommend The Mansion at Oyster Bay enough. From the wedding coordinator (Estee), the maitre'd (Mike), and bridal attendant (Estei) to all the staff here, they truly made our dreams come true! They were so easy to work with, found solutions to any issues we bought up, and kept us stress-free and were extremely professional. Everything ran very smoothly and communication was fantastic. We had a few requests prior to the day of that they were able to accommodate, which made us feel truly special. What I appreciated the most was that they were able to include an extra translation in Chinese for my family on the menu, which really meant a lot of me and my family. I would 100% recommend this venue for it's historic charm and courteous staff.
Reviewed on 10-10-2022

Mara Lindel (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 09-09-2022
My wedding was an absolute dream, and it would not have been possible without the staff at The Mansion at Oyster Bay. Steve, Skylar, Mike and Natalie were absolutely amazing to work with and helped to make our day perfect and run so smoothly. The venue itself was beautiful--it has so much charm and character, making it such a unique place to get married. Our guests have now mentioned to us several times that this was some of the best food they have ever had at a wedding. I can honestly say that there is nothing that I would change or do differently. Highly recommend!
Reviewed on 13-09-2022

Bria Degirmencioglu (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 20-05-2022
We fell in love with the mansion instantly and it was the first and last venue we toured for our May 2022 wedding! We worked with Gary and then Doug, and both were amazing and super responsive! They guided us through the process and made everything easy for us. Mike our Maitre D was incredible, he was professional, organized, and upbeat. I never ended up hiring a day of coordinator, Mike helped me plan the timeline of the day and was there for us with whatever we needed the day of. Este my bridal attendant never left my side, she was a dream from the morning until the after party! The rest of the staff worked so hard to bring everything together and truly made the day magical. It unexpectedly rained and Mike and the team shifted everything inside quickly and made it look beautiful!! All of our guests loved everything from the cocktail hour, food, bar, and service and said it was the most romantic and stunning venue they’ve ever been to. I don’t even have the words to thank you all enough! You made it a day we will cherish forever.
Reviewed on 07-07-2022

Crystal Veras (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 28-05-2022
If I had to do it over again, I wouldn't change a thing. My husband and I planned our wedding over the course of three years due to the pandemic, with multiple wedding dates, but Emily's attention never waivered. She always responded promptly and talked me through the changes and updates along the way. On the day of, I was so grateful to have Mike and staff by my side (including the best bridal attendant ever). I can't wait to recommend this place to everyone.
Reviewed on 07-06-2022

Nicole Berkey (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 14-05-2022
Wow – we cannot say enough positive things about this venue. My husband keeps saying to me ‘everyone needs to get married here’ and he is so right. Everything was absolutely PERFECT! Emily was an absolute pleasure to work with from the moment we toured the mansion the first day. Mike, our maître D was spot on – he made the day run so smoothly, it was so enjoyable for us. Este, my bridal attendant, was phenomenal!! Anything and everything that I needed, she was right there the entire day. I got some dirt on the bottom of my dress that she was able to get out and make it look good as new! And when I forgot my garter, she searched all around the mansion to come up with a solution so that we could still do the bouquet/garter toss! Thank you to the mansion for making our dream wedding day become a reality!!!
Reviewed on 16-05-2022

Elisabeth Muehlemann (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 23-04-2022
We had an amazing experience at the Mansion at Oyster Bay. Our wedding day ran like clockwork because of Mike, who couldn’t have been more professional, and we were able to have fun because we knew everything was taken care of. The venue itself was beautiful and the food was amazing. We’re so happy we picked the Mansion for our wedding and would definitely recommend them to any couple considering having their wedding there.
Reviewed on 29-04-2022

Kristen Burgner (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 20-02-2022
This venue was absolutely incredible in all aspects. We also held the ceremony on site and it made the day transition smoothly and quickly (too quickly). The Lessings company puts out a fantastic cocktail hour, dinner and passed desserts that had our guests over fed and happy. The service on alcohol was top shelf and not lightly poured. The people that were helping prep and day of were nothing but helpful and responsive to the million and one questions a couple/ family there of getting married have. 10/10 would recommend
Reviewed on 24-02-2022

Kerrin F (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 12-02-2022
I could not be happier with our experience with the venue and the staff at the Mansion at Oyster Bay. Emily, the manager, was warm, accommodating, and always responsive during our 3 years in planning (courtesy of many Covid cancellations). We finally held our wedding last weekend, and the compliments on the mansion were never-ending! The beauty of the venue speaks for itself, and their attention to detail and the polished service were the cherry on top. Now if only we could find another excuse to throw another party here. . .
Reviewed on 16-02-2022

Jessica Astarita (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 08-10-2021
\"Your venue was so homey,\" \"Absolutely Amazing,\" \"I loved your wedding venue, I felt like I was at home except a really really beautiful home!\" These are a few comments we received after our wedding at The Mansion. When we booked we fell in love. The checkered floors and antique fixtures, not to mention all the food choices. Although we loved the venue what sold us was Gary the director of sales at The Mansion who gave us our tour. He was so personable the day of our tour all the way up to our wedding. We were so happy with planning and trusted our wedding to the best! In the weeks leading up we were in constant contact with the venue especially Mike who made everything we wanted in decorations come true. On the day of we were greeted by the staff with a huge warm welcome. Natalie helped us the day of with her bag of goodies! Safety pin? tide pen? espresso martini? she's got it! We had a the best time and it is exactly what we wanted for our special day!
Reviewed on 22-11-2021

Alanna G (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 15-10-2021
Back in 2019, we immediately booked our wedding at the Mansion after the first visit. The friendly staff, gorgeous location, and feeling we got immediately upon arrival, made this a no brainer. Once the pandemic came, we knew we’d have to make the tough decision of postponing. During this stressful time, the staff at the Mansion remained pleasant, patient, and accommodating. Gary, Emily, and staff made rescheduling a breeze. We finally got to celebrate our wedding on October 15th, 2021 and it was well worth the wait. Several guests have told us it was one of the best weddings they’ve ever been to! From start to finish, it was a dream. The moment we arrived, my bridal attendant Natalie jumped into action. She was AMAZING the entire night, making sure we had everything we needed. Our Maitre d’, Michael was fantastic as well! We highly recommend The Mansion at Oyster Bay and cannot thank them enough for the wedding of our dreams.
Reviewed on 21-11-2021

Melanie Gennari (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 29-10-2021
Our Mansion at Oyster Bay wedding review for 10/29/21…where do we even start?! This venue beyond exceeded our expectations!! Between the cozy and elegant ambiance, amazing food, top shelf drinks, attentive staff- there was not one stone left unturned. First and foremost Gary from start to finish was incredible to work with. Extremely responsive, accommodating, and honest. Going back from our original booking in 2019 for a 2020 wedding, to rescheduling to 2021, Gary remained consistent and patient throughout the entire process, even under the most difficult pressures. He fulfilled every request and upheld his promise that or wedding day would be nothing less than spectacular. Michael was fantastic! He was the person that made sure our day was set up exactly how we wanted it. Between the tables, favors, decor, cigar table- he didn’t miss a beat and followed through with every request. Everything was executed so beautifully. He even kept the bar flowing with top notch espresso martinis for the bridal party before the party started! We truly felt like king and queen for a day, and it was such a treat to have the entire venue to ourselves. Even before the start of the event, it was so wonderful for the bridal party and immediate family to fully and intimately experience the venue and bridal suite before the guests arrived. Last but not least, Natalie the bridal attendant was an absolute STAR!!! She went above and beyond on our wedding day to make sure we had the best experience possible. She started with us during the professional photos and was constantly adjusting my dress and veil so it was perfect. She made sure the photographer took advantage of all of the best areas around the venue and didn’t forget the important shots. The most important part- during the beginning of cocktail hour, Natalie put Jim and I in the bridal suite to eat privately. From our signature cocktails, to the passed hour d’overs, to every item at each food station- she didn’t miss a thing! During the reception, she brought us our 3 menu selections to try. She made sure our glasses never were empty. At the end of the night, she even wrapped up the food we didn’t finish, as well as the cake and passed desserts. Everything was labeled and ready to go. These are the little things during the busy day that your brain can’t even think of- and Natalie truly was 5 steps ahead from start to finish. We can confidently say we ate everything at our wedding! Overall, from the presentations to the quality and taste of the food- 5 stars! Bartenders worked quickly between drinks and shots and kept the wait times for guests to a minimum. Everyone was raving about the food, top shelf liquor, and impeccable service.The Mansion at Oyster Bay went above and beyond in making our day extraordinary special and seamless. We thank you whole heartedly and looking forward to attending future events here!!
Reviewed on 17-11-2021

Christina Menchini (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 11-06-2021
When my fiancé and I toured the Mansion, we immediately fell in love. It’s gorgeous inside and out and has amazing grounds. I truly think this is one of the most beautiful wedding venues on Long Island. Emily was our main point of contact, but we worked with Gary as well. We were originally supposed to get married June 2020 but postponed an entire year out. They were very accommodating all through COVID and helped ease my concerns. I’m a very type A bride and would call constantly. They always made sure to answer my questions and help with planning. The day of the wedding flowed incredibly smooth. We did not hire a wedding planner and we did not need one! Mike was our Maitre D and he was amazing. We dropped off all our of wedding décor two days before and Mike reviewed everything with us. He ensured everything would go exactly where we wanted it. The day from beginning to end was amazing. It truly was perfect. The food was incredible. All our guests commented on how delicious everything was. You are in great hands with the Mansion and with Lessing’s. I couldn’t recommend them enough.
Reviewed on 27-10-2021

Michelle Stankiewicz (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 25-09-2021
When we first visited The Mansion at Oyster Bay back in July of 2019, we were blown away by the class and elegance of the Mansion. Leading our tour of the Mansion was the kindest, most sincere man, who we would come to appreciate and respect over the next two years to a level that cannot possibly be expressed, Gary Schneider. Gary went over everything with us about how our day would go in a way that allowed us to live the day two years before it even happened. It was more than a sales pitch, it was a story, a story from someone that we could tell was genuinely excited for us and absolutely had our best interest in mind and at heart. After the initial tour we were convinced that this was the venue for us.Originally, our wedding date was October 17, 2020 however, sadly, COVID and the world it created had other ideas about that. Gary was in constant communication with us throughout this difficult time and kept us calm and assured us that a new date was in the books if we wanted it. We pushed the decision to the end of August, 2020 and with a heavy heart made the official call to postpone. We were nervous as we had heard stories from other future brides and grooms about how their venues and vendors had changed their prices or imposed other difficulties on them for postponing. However, we could not have had a more different experience to the ones we were hearing about. Gary took care of the change immediately and we were not penalized or forced to make any changes whatsoever. It was the easiest phone call we made in one of the most difficult and upsetting times in our relationship. Our wedding took place on September 25, 2021 and the day was perfection. While we owe a HUGE thank you to Gary for EVERYTHING he did for us in the lead up to the big day, we owe another one to Michael, our maître d', for his amazing work executing our vision on the day of; Michael delivered above and beyond! He had an amazing understanding of what we had in mind and some great ideas and suggestions about how we could improve the flow of the evening that turned out to be amazing. On the day of the wedding he was there from the beginning of the afternoon to the end of the night and we didn’t have to think once because we had complete confidence in him and he didn’t disappoint. One thing I didn’t know I needed, but now know I could have never lived without, was Natalie. EVERY bride needs a Natalie! Natalie was my bridal attendant, and was amazing. She is chipper, kind hearted, and is amazing at what she does. She was there for me from the minute I arrived at the Mansion to the minute we left that evening. She kept me calm and assisted my maid of honor and I in every way possible. Without Natalie my maid of honor probably would have left pulling her hair out and cursing me, but Natalie handled it all with a smile and level of care that made me feel like she was someone I had known forever.Now, on to the one thing that can make or break a wedding: the food. And let me tell you the food at the Mansion does not disappoint! The Chef did an AMAZING job cooking some of the best food any of our guests had ever had. The cocktail hour stations were amazing and the staff even allowed us to create our own Polish based station for cocktail hour, which was a big hit! The kitchen staff cooked so many diverse foods and all of it was delicious.Choosing The Mansion at Oyster as our venue was the best decision my husband and I made throughout the entire wedding planning process!
Reviewed on 12-10-2021

Lara Perlstein (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 24-09-2021
Planning a wedding is hard - planning a wedding during a pandemic is almost impossible, but the staff at the Mansion at Oyster Bay made it painless and an unforgettable night! We had our Vow Renewal & Wedding Anniversary Celebration at the mansion on 9/24 after needing to reschedule. Throughout the planning process both Emily & Gary were amazing to work with and answered all our questions while being incredibly accommodating along the way. Fast forward to the night of and the mansion staff absolutely killed it! Natalie our bridal attendant was incredible taking care of every little detail including helping me print our my vows 5 mins before the ceremony. Mike was also on top of everything and kept the night moving along without us needing to worry at all. Our guests cannot stop raving about the beautiful venue and the incredible food - from cocktail hour through to the after party! Would give 10 stars if I could and highly recommend the Mansion for your celebrations!
Reviewed on 05-10-2021

Samantha Restaino (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 16-09-2021
This place is amazing. I would a thousand times over recommend this beautiful venue to everyone! It’s not your typical modern Long Island venue. It’s classy, warm, and just simply gorgeous. We had our ceremony outside and the gardens and back patio are just stunning. Our day went unbelievably smooth, the staff is on point at all times. My maitre’d Mike was so sweet and was there at all times for us. He helped us set up the day before, was there with anything we needed the day of, and even helped with some things we had left behind a few days after. Natalie my bridal attendant was spectacular. The kindest, sweetest person and such a joy to have by my side all day. She always made sure my dress was sitting just right for the pictures, was always giving confidence boosting speeches when I got nervous, and was a HUGE help at the end of the night helping my parents carry everything we brought back to their cars. It’s unbelievable how truly amazing this venue and staff were on my wedding day. Thank you for making our day feel like a dream<3
Reviewed on 22-09-2021

Bridget Murray (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 05-09-2021
My husband and I got married at the Mansion in early September. We could not recommend the Mansion more highly. When we had to postpone our 2020 wedding due to COVID , Gary and his team went above and beyond to help us reschedule. Gary even reached out to us with his personal number to ensure we could reach him whenever we needed him. The entire team at the Mansion was professional, responsive and supportive through the planning process. The day of the wedding our wedding coordinator Natalie was a true angel. She made sure we always had food and drinks and even boxed all our cocktail hour food for us to take home since we were so busy talking to our guests during the cocktail hour. Michael the maitre de made sure the night flowed seamlessly. The mansion itself is so beautiful and well kept. Our guests raved about the food and entire experience at the mansion. We HIGHLY recommend working with the Lessings team and the Mansion at Oyster Bay if you want a beautiful setting serviced by professional, warm and knowledgeable people!
Reviewed on 18-09-2021

Christi Curcio (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 26-06-2021
Meticulous, welcoming, professional, attentive, a true pleasure are just a few words that come to mind when describing our experience at the Mansion at Oyster Bay. My husband and I had our wedding on June 26, 2021 after postponing from our original June 2020 date. We postponed our wedding back in April 2020 due to COVID and Gary could not have been more accommodating. He made us feel at ease and affirmed that we were making the right decision. Gary and the entire staff at the mansion are top notch. The food is phenomenal and the service is unmatched. I cannot stop raving about our Maitre’d Michael and Bridal Attendant Stephanie. Truly the best of the best! They do not miss a beat - any time my husband, myself or bridal party needed something, they were right there already one step ahead of us. Our guests are still talking about how impressed they were with the overall experience. They go above and beyond to make your day nothing less than perfect. Not to mention the Gold Coast ambiance of the mansion makes you feel like you’re in a fairytale. When they tell you the mansion is your home the day of your event, they mean it. I cannot wait to be able to book another event here. THANK YOU for making our wedding dreams come true!
Reviewed on 30-08-2021

Lara Hajjar (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 07-08-2021
I'll keep this short and to the point! Everything about this venue is beautiful, especially if you want a more 1920s rustic glam instead of a more traditional LI banquet hall. We worked with Gary way back in 2019 up until our postponed 2021 wedding. He was incredible from day 1 all the way through the wedding day. Given the circumstances of the world, he was supportive and worked with us to ensure our wedding day went as smooth and as perfect as possible. On the day of, the Maitre D and the bridal attendant were also spot-on and so very helpful. In addition to the beauty of the mansion, the food was great, and the drinks were flowing all night long (aka no long lines at the bars to get drinks!!). I could go on, but like I said I wanted to keep it short - have your wedding here!!!
Reviewed on 25-08-2021

Julianne DiFrisco (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 10-07-2021
: I do not know where to begin. We LOVED The Mansion and all the employees before the pandemic, and honestly, we were blown away at how helpful and absolutely accommodating the team was. We had no problem rescheduling and 10months later, we are glad that we did. The primary person who we worked with was Gary Schinder, he truly made us, and my family feel like our wedding was his number one priority. He was always available with any question we had, and was always willing to assist with all of the curveballs we had to face with the pandemic. When it came time to rescheduling our day, Gary was so incredible that he even had us to keep our original date, just in case. Later on we got to meet Michael, the maître d’, and was hands down INCREDIBLE!!! Gary, Michael, and all of the staff at the Mansion were unbelievable to work and I honestly cannot say how fortunate we were to work with such an amazing team. On the day of our wedding, the staff were so attentive, caring, kind, and provided quick service whenever it was needed. My bridal attendant was so beyond helpful, attentive and overall exceed expectations! Michael was very attentive to my husband and always made sure he had a drink and had enough to eat, while also being able to keep the entire event on schedule so we had plenty of time for dancing. My bridal attendant was Essie and words cannot describe how much I LOVED HER!!! Essie was truly so attentive, helpful, kind, caring, and well more than one-step ahead. From the moment that we got there to the end of the night she was always there for whatever I needed, whether it was a drink, food, and fixing the bustle. The food at cocktail hour, dinner and dessert was amazing!!! The presentation and consistency of the food was certainly noticed by our guests and something we continued to receive compliments on from our guests even weeks later. The next day, when we went back to grab the various personal items we brought for our reception, Michael and Gary were there to greet us and were so welcoming with a huge smile on their faces. All of our stuff that we had to pick up was cleaned and packed away so neatly, I was very impressed. Michael and Gary asked us how my parents and we felt about the night and really wanted to make sure we had the time of our lives, which showed that they really cared about us. I cannot recommend the Mansion at Oyster Bay enough, this is your venue I guarantee!
Reviewed on 16-08-2021

Katie Iovino (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 14-08-2021
The Mansion at Oyster Bay is truly an amazing venue. We got married there this weekend and the entire experience could not have been better. We were one of the many couples that had to postpone our wedding from 2020 to 2021 and The Mansion could not have been more accommodating during this tough time. As we heard horror stories about other venues and how they treated couples during the pandemic, we felt so grateful to be in such understanding and wonderful hands. Gary Schneider is absolutely incredible-he knows how to calm even the most stressed out bride and also how to plan a wedding so that all your dreams come true. Michael, our Maitre 'd, was absolutely fantastic and my bridal attendant Stephanie was amazing as well. The entire night was so seamless and easy and our guests absolutely kept raving about the location and being able to spread out throughout the Mansion since there is only 1 wedding held there at a time. We had our afterparty on the roof deck and that was a big hit as well. We are so grateful that we finally got to have the wedding of our dreams and the Mansion at Oyster Bay is absolutely the reason!
Reviewed on 16-08-2021

John DiFrisco (other) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 10-07-2021
Our daughter, Julianne, and son in law's, Gary, wedding reception at The Mansion of Oyster Bay was more beautiful than we could ever imagine and we are forever grateful for Gary and Michael's professionalism and ability to make us feel we are the most important people planning a wedding from the first day we went to the Mansion to the day after when we returned. The wedding was planned before Covid, but during the height of Covid, Gary always made us feel at ease and suggested we pick another date \"just in case\" to assure they always had the safe yet perfect wedding that they wanted. We are so grateful for Gary's suggestion as we moved the date to July 2021!From the initial interaction, to Covid discussions, to the actual planning and finally to the wedding day, Gary and Micheal never wavered on making us feel we were the most important family they had ever worked with.The Mansion on the day of the wedding reception was more beautiful than we could ever have imagined. Covid never impacted the Mansion and was as beautiful as the first day we saw the Mansion in 2019. The food presentation was picture perfect and our guests continue to tell us how incredibly delicious it all was. The staff were always there for whatever we and our guests needed from the moment we entered the mansion to the moment we left.Gary and Michael were an incredible team that you felt all through the process believed in what they did and truly wanted to make sure the wedding is everything you had hoped for and more.When we returned the following day, Gary and Micheal were there to greet us and were as happy for us as we were. They loved hearing about our day and sharing in our joy.We will ALWAYS be forever grateful and thankful for this incredible day our daughter, Julianne, and son in law, Gary, had on their wedding day at The Mansion of Oyster Bay.John and Eilee
Reviewed on 08-08-2021

Stacey Burgoyne (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 01-08-2021
I do not even know where to begin when it comes to working with Gary Schneider at the Mansion at Oyster Bay. We booked the venue the first time we walked in and it was not even set up for viewings as we saw it during the height of COVID in June 2020. That speaks to how special this place truly is. Gary loves what he does and takes such pride in the venue- it was no question for us! I did not have an ounce of stress the entire process because I knew the team at the mansion would deliver. We met Michael later on in the process and he was a true gem- professional, accommodating, passionate…ugh, I could go on forever. Natalie was my bridal attendant and, as expected, she was just as wonderful! I would not change a single thing about my entire day. I also wish I could see Gary, Michael, and Natalie on a regular basis because they are each a ray of positivity you want in your life, especially on your special day. Do not think twice, this is your venue.
Reviewed on 04-08-2021

Katrina Blankenhorn (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 28-05-2021
The mansion at oyster bay was absolutely amazing. We picked our date right before Covid hit and the entire time they kept us updated with policies and allowed us to pick a back up date if Covid restrictions were still in place on our big day. The actual venue is beautiful but the staff is also amazing. They say yes to whatever you want to make your wedding day dreams come true and pull through and make it happen. Absolutely incredible experience from the food to the service to the space. Would definitely recommend.
Reviewed on 15-06-2021

Siobhan Schneider (other) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 03-06-2021
My father passed away in April 2020 and we weren't able to have a wake or funeral for him. When we planned his Memorial Mass and luncheon for June 3, 2021, we went straight to The Mansion. I had attended a Baby Shower there in 2019 and absolutely loved it! Adriana and Michael were ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL to work with. Due to the nature of the occasion, they were so respectful and did everything they could to make my father's Memorial as special as possible. Every guest commented just how beautiful the venue and grounds were and how delicious the food was. I have three daughters and hope to celebrate all of their special days at the Mansion!
Reviewed on 06-06-2021

Lesley L (other) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 31-05-2021
I had my kids’ B’nai Mitzvah here on 5/31/21. We had to cancel our original venue due to covid (last year) and once things started to re- open, The Mansion was the perfect venue! While other places were looking to make up for their losses, The Mansion was so accomodating and flexible, making our “plan b” celebration better than we could have imagined!! As the covid- restrictions lessened, Ariana kept me informed and allowed us to bring more of our guests and vendors in, right up to the week of the event. The place was the perfect size, beautifully appoibted and allowed for both indoor and outdoor (covered) seating for distancing, and the food was delicious! The quiche and bacon/buffet items were so good I wanted to take the rest home! The Mansion and the people we worked with (Ariana&Mike) could not have been more pleasant to deal with especially under the stress of covid and trying to plan a party so quickly. I highly recommend this venue for any type of event- and definitely go with the bacon (well-done)!! You won’t regret it!
Reviewed on 03-06-2021

Nicoletta Rasizzi (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 23-05-2021
I had my son's first communion here. Ariana and Michael were amazing! They did an exceptional job. The party was beautiful, food was amazing and my guests could not stop talking about it. I highly recommend this venue ❤
Reviewed on 29-05-2021

Anthony R (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 23-04-2021
My wife and I got married here in April 2021 and in the uncertain period of COVID, we got our dream wedding. From the sales manager (Emily), to the food, to the bridal assistant (Kelly) and the Maitre'd (Michael), I can go on and on about how every aspect of the build up and the day of exceeded our expectations. The beautiful mansion was recognized by all during our cocktail hour and reception and my wife and I were very lucky to have 142 guests either vaccinated or tested under the state guidelines. The venue allowed for a safe and responsible gathering with our closest friends and family. To go back to it also, the food was AMAZING! The staff prepared amazing meals all night long. To say we were able to pull of a COVID wedding, many of those thanks go to the amazing staff at the Mansion and you would simply be missing out if you didn't at least meet with the team and explore options regarding your wedding. It was the most perfect day and we would not change a thing.
Reviewed on 05-05-2021

Kara Franco (other) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 10-04-2021
I hosted my sister's bridal shower at the Mansion at Oyster Bay and all I can say is WOW- it exceeded my expectations! The drawing room and outside tent were beyond gorgeous and well- kept. The mansion and the grounds are simply perfect. The staff was helpful and lovely. The maitre-D, Mike, was so on top of everything and helped ensure that the shower ran on time and that we had everything we needed at all times. The brunch buffet and omelette station were delicious! Emily helped us plan the event and was so helpful and flexible with all of the date changes due to Covid. Thanks again to everyone at the mansion for an unforgettable event!
Reviewed on 12-04-2021

Amanda Camilleri (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 19-03-2021
My husband and I celebrated our wedding here on 3/19/21! Our original wedding was suppose to be on 11/25/2020! While getting married during a pandemic is no walk in the park the mansion made sure to make it as easy as possible for us! Gary who helped us from the very beginning was amazing! He also became our therapist during this crazy time! When he had to take time off for personal reasons I wasn't even stressed thanks to Ariana ! She made the transition amazing and easy ! Everyone at the mansion was so helpful and made sure to put me and my husband at ease the day of! From the maître d’ to the bridal attendant to all the other staff! I would recommend them to anyone looking to have a wedding or any other special event ! I already miss working with all of them and it’s only been two days! I can never thank them enough for everything they did and all the memories we now have forever! If you want your wedding to go off stress free and fun this is the place!
Reviewed on 21-03-2021

Kelly Behrens (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 14-02-2021
My husband and I got married on 2/14/21 and could not be happier with the way our wedding turned out. We were hesitant to push forward with covid and the restrictions, but we were so glad with the way it turned out. Our wedding day was absolutely perfect, and there is nothing that we'd change. We cannot say enough about the staff and all that they did to make our day perfect. Barbara was in charge of our event and worked all day to make sure we had everything we needed and that our guests were happy. My bridal attendant, Natalie, was the best. She was always there to help me and made sure that I had the best time at my wedding. My guests cannot stop talking about how beautiful the venue was and how attentive the staff was. The bartender, Keith, was amazing. The food was amazing. We are so happy with the way our wedding turned out and would recommend this venue to anyone planning a wedding. The staff was amazing, the venue was beautiful, and the food and drink were delicious. Thank you, Barbara and Natalie, for all that you did to make our covid wedding incredible for us and our guests!!
Reviewed on 17-02-2021

Jillian Boudreau (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 06-11-2020
Gary and Emily were absolutely amazing throughout the entire planning process. They were always there to answer any questions and constantly reassure me despite all the changes we had to make. The venue itself was so beautiful and we could have not asked for a better staff to work with. We could not recommend the venue and the amazing team enough
Reviewed on 16-11-2020

genevieve falco (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 08-11-2020
My husband and I booked the mansion at oyster bay shortly after we became engaged a little over a year ago. We had toured several beautiful and breathtaking venues each with their own unique charm. However, the moment I walked into the mansion at oyster bay, I knew that this was the place I would marry the man of my dreams. I mentioned that we had toured several places before booking the mansion. Though beautiful and amazing choices they would have been, they were all missing just one thing. And that was Gary. I cannot say enough about this man. You will be able to tell right away that he adores what he does and does it with incomparable ease and passion. The Mansion itself is beautiful and an obvious amazing choice but would not be the venue that it is without Gary.Planning a wedding is hard and stressful. Planning and executing a wedding during a pandemic is an entirely other ballgame. Gary and his team at the mansion make it seem like a walk in the park. They made sure that when I walked out of the mansion on November 8th, not only did I walk out with a husband, but also with lasting memories of the wedding of my dreams. They were patient, caring and passionate every single step of the way and made sure that each and every single person felt safe and accommodated during these not so traditional times. I will be forever grateful for the wedding that Gary and his team created for me. It was perfect in every single way. The biggest mistake you can make during your wedding planning process is not meeting Gary and checking out the mansion at oyster day.
Reviewed on 11-11-2020

Valerie T (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 09-10-2020
We had an OUTSTANDING wedding at The Mansion at Oyster Bay in October 2020! We first met Gary back in July 2020, when things just started opening up and he was very helpful and really understood what we were looking for. Gary and Emily were accommodating and had great recommendations during the whole process. Everyone at The Mansion at Oyster Bay made our wedding feel special and “normal” despite all the COVID state guidelines and restrictions. They were able to deliver the wedding we always hoped we would have while keeping everyone safe. Natalie was very thoughtful and helpful throughout the entire evening! Delicious food! Attentive service! An intimate setting both outdoors and indoors! We would recommend The Mansion at Oyster Bay to everyone and couldn’t be happier with our choice of venue! We wish we could relive it all again!
Reviewed on 24-10-2020

Samantha Catapano (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 11-10-2020
I don't even know where to being with this review. To say that our wedding day was the most perfect day of our lives is an understatement. We have Gary, Natalie, Barbara and the entire staff at The Mansion at Oyster Bay to thank for that! We booked with them in January of 2019, not knowing that the world had other plans for us, we did not want to cancel or postpone our wedding. We got married at the Mansion over the weekend with only 49 guests, and it was the most amazing wedding. Gary has been incredible though out the entire process, keeping us up to date and completely informed as to what we were allowed to do for our wedding. He made sure that we were taken care of and completely informed. I have heard horror stories from brides this year about venues and vendors making things very difficult for couples amid this global pandemic, but Gary and his staff always made us feel that we were in control and they only wanted what was best for us as a couple. They made our guests feel completely safe, the food was incredible and they truly care about every little detail of your wedding. Natalie was an amazing bridal attendant, not only is she the sweetest person, she was attentive, professional, and there at every turn!! If you are looking for an amazing, detail oriented, and completely over the top incredible venue to host your wedding, look no further. The Mansion at Oyster Bay is the whole package!!!! I would recommend them to every bride and I just want to relive my wedding day over and over again!
Reviewed on 14-10-2020

Debbie Cohen (parent) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 07-09-2019
Our daughter’s wedding at the Mansion at Oyster Bay in September 2019 (yes I’ve been remiss in posting this!) was absolutely amazing! We chose the venue mainly because the size of the ballroom worked for the size of our guest list but everything about the venue is beautiful. I cannot say enough good things about Gary Schneider and his staff! The Bridal Suite is spacious and perfect for the bride and her girls. The Groom has a number of different rooms available based on the number of groomsmen. The outdoor ceremony space is a beautiful and romantic setting already filled with beautiful greenery and flowers. Cocktail hour was held indoors and outdoors under the tented patio. Every station was staged to perfection and the food was delicious. Hors d’oeuvres were passed very professionally and serving at each cocktail station was so impeccable that you never found yourself standing in line. You also never had to figure out what to do with your finished plate or glass as someone always seemed to be right there offering to take it away. The ballroom, with its rich wood, large windows, high ceilings, built in up-lighting with numerous color options and wood floor so that your dance floor could be as large as you wanted, was absolutely stunning. Having a large, permanent built-in bar at each end of the room is one of the little things that add a bit of class to the room. Dinner service was truly white glove and all 3 entrée choices were delicious. We chose to have our wedding cake made at Francesca’s, which was a great choice and was served along with fresh fruit and cookies to each table. In addition, the butler passed desserts allowed everyone on the dance floor to have dessert without stopping the party! Gary promised me I would give him a 5-star review after our wedding. Although it took me over a year to post a formal review, I, and all of our guests, have been telling everyone that he and the Mansion deserve a 10 star review!
Reviewed on 05-10-2020

Laura Tillman (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 28-11-2021
Fantastic experience working with Gary and his team on our 2021 wedding. From the start, he has been so accommodating and transparent with us, everything we could've asked for in these COVID times. It's clear that Gary and his team genuinely care about putting on the best events possible. We highly recommend the Mansion for any affair!
Reviewed on 26-08-2020

Stephanie Leverone (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 27-11-2020
Like many other brides are writing, the Mansion of Oyster Bay has been nothing but amazing during this whole process. My fiancé and I are getting married in November and have been so excited to get married here from the moment we stepped foot in the Mansion. We have been working with Gary from the start and couldn't be happier with our decision. He has helped us during this wedding process with anything we needed. With COVID we have been getting worried so we decided it was time to call Gary about options. He mentioned that they are taking all the proper precautions that is necessary if we still decide to have it this year but he also offered us the option to pencil in a date for next year. Having that option to reschedule means everything to couples getting married right now. Gary is someone who is so passionate about his work and knows what is important. We are looking forward to continue working with Gary and can’t wait to get married at the Mansion of Oyster Bay.
Reviewed on 15-07-2020

Melanie Gennari (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 29-10-2021
This review goes out to the Mansion at Oyster Bay, but most importantly Gary Schneider who we’ve worked with directly throughout our planning process. Like many other couples who needed to reschedule their weddings due to the pandemic, we were dreading the process. I was hearing horror stories about other venues and their lack of accommodations and empathy for their clients.Gary was very understanding of our personal situation and went above and beyond to accommodate us and our decision to change our date. There were no feelings of guilt, pressure, or negativity. He is extremely detail oriented, passionate, and does anything he can to ensure everyone’s experience is nothing less than spectacular at the Mansion at Oyster Bay. With both couples and venues experiencing such challenges and uncertainty over the last few months, we can confidently say we are fortunate to have selected such a wonderful venue who truly has their clients best interest at heart. We are looking forward to continuing to work with Gary & celebrating our wedding at the Mansion at Oyster Bay next year!
Reviewed on 13-07-2020

Aine Doherty (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 21-11-2020
Last May, my fiance and I met with Gary at the Mansion and we instantly knew we found our dream venue for our wedding that was supposed to be in November of 2020. Gary was part of that reason. His professionalism and dedication to us, determined to make our day perfect and put stresses at ease, was so apparent. Unfortunately, due to COVID 19, we've decided to postpone our wedding until November 2021. I was initially hesitant to reach out to Gary, assuming that it was too early for us to consider postponing and that he would be unable to accommodate our wishes just yet. I was wrong. Gary welcomed our request with open arms. His empathy, swift action, impressive response times, and positive attitude was refreshing and helpful. He made what we thought would be a stressful process, a flawless one, that just simply felt right. We cannot wait to celebrate our marriage at the Mansion at Oyster Bay in 2021 and work with their staff even more closely. Love always prevails!
Reviewed on 24-06-2020

Samantha Catapano (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 11-10-2020
There are not enough words of praise I have for Gary and the entire staff at the Mansion! We are set to get married there in October, and from the moment that we signed our contracts in January of 2019 they have been a dream to work with. They truly put their couples first. Through this whole pandemic that the world has been experiencing, as a bride to be there was an added level of stress that the wedding we have worked so hard to plan might not happen. Well after talking with Gary, we could not feel more confident that The Mansion will give us 110% on the day of our wedding. Although we are hopeful and we plan to have our wedding this fall, we were able to have a hold on a possible postponement date for 2021. They have answered all of our questions with positive but truthful answers. We cannot day enough amazing things about everyone at The Mansion at Oyster Bay & the Lessings Hospitality group!
Reviewed on 06-06-2020

Eryn B (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating

My fiance and I were finally coming to terms that our August 2020 wedding would likey have to be postponed due to Covid-19 a few weeks ago. We decided it was time to call Gary and see what our options were and he was amazing. He walked us through all of our options and gave us a few dates to choose from for next year. He put a date on hold for us until we could sit down with our families and weigh the options out before finally deciding postponing would be the best option. Postponing our wedding was a difficult decision to come to terms with but Gary made the process extremely easy without any stress. We can't wait to finally celebrate with all of our family and friends next June
Reviewed on 02-06-2020

Joe Bacigalupo (groom) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 07-03-2020
My wife and I were married in March 2020 and had our reception at The Mansion at Oyster Bay. The Mansion is an absolutely beautiful venue! The whole process was a great experience from start to finish. Painless, seamless, and a lot of fun! Gary led us along the way starting with a thorough tour offering suggestions based on his decades of experience and holding periodic meetings closer to the wedding to make sure everything was going as planned. Gary and his team were excellent! Requests of ours were honored and Gary and the team were always available to answer questions and alleviate concerns. Both Mike (maître d') and Stephanie (bridal attendant) were exceptional! The food at the cocktail hours was incredible. So incredible (and abundant) that one guest asked around about the food at the cocktail hour being all that would be served! Dinner was fantastic and just as we expected based on the tasting. We were given many compliments on all courses and choices. Gary's positivity, professionalism, attention to detail and commitment to service, which extends to every person on The Mansion's team, was outstanding. We couldn't be happier with our choice!
Reviewed on 08-05-2020

Jacqueline Shine (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 17-07-2020
Gary and Emily have been responsive, flexible, and empathetic during this difficult time. Gary worked with us to find a back up date and and ensured my fiancé and I were comfortable with moving forward. Times are stressful and everyone has their own struggles but it was reassuring to know that we would be treated with consideration, kindness, and empathy every time we spoke. The Mansion is a beautiful venue and the people who run the show take pride in what they do and really care about their couples.
Reviewed on 06-05-2020

Janine Marazzo (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 17-07-2021
We got engaged in January 2019 and toured several LI venues, but after our tour with Gary, we knew the Mansion at Oyster Bay was the venue for us! Gary didn’t skip a beat during our tour and truly cared as he listened to what my parents, fiancé and I were looking for in a wedding venue. When covid hit we were left with no choice but to postpone our July 2020 wedding to July 2021. Gary and Lessings were nothing short but wonderful with changing our day. They were understanding and supportive knowing the biggest day of our lives was just turned upside-down and beyond accommodating of whatever we needed to make the new day just as incredible. Fast forward to 2021 and Gary brings Mike the maitre d into the mix to assist with the final details of the planning process, Mike and Gary are the dynamic dream duo you need on your wedding day! Every single detail, down to hourly weather updates, was seamlessly coordinated by them. The chef is equally fantastic - people are still raving about the food from our wedding! Gary and Mike have an amazing staff who truly care about making your wedding day exactly what you are looking for, by the end my parents, husband and I all said they felt like family. Run to tour this venue and snatch a date for your wedding - you will not be disappointed! After 2.5 years of planning together choosing the Mansion at Oyster Bay was one of the best decisions we made and we will miss working with Gary, Mike and the incredible staff!
Reviewed on 26-04-2020

Alex A. (groom) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 19-06-2020
While I'm sure 'mid-experience' reviews are a little uncommon for some obvious reasons, an exception should be made here (in a GREAT way). On behalf of my fiancé and I, we have to say that dealing with Gary Schneider at The Mansion at Oyster Bay has been beyond an A+ experience. Us, like many other engaged couples with Spring 2020 Wedding plans, have been in the thick of things as the COVID-19 pandemic developed and continues to do so. It was important for us to leave a note of recognition here because we typically form our opinions of people, company’s, and services based on the average run of the mill experience we have, which is oftentimes helpful. In reality, however, it’s also when things are difficult and major problems unexpectedly arise that you can really tell the quality of who you’re working with. Once this pandemic fell into everyone's laps, Gary returned all of our calls promptly, spent time with us to help go over the best options for us, and offered sincere flexibility to the best of his ability. We’re thankful to be working with Gary, The Mansion staff, the Lessing’s organization, and cannot wait to still get married at The Mansion at Oyster Bay with confidence that it will be amazing. Gary and company love what they do, and if you go there to check it out you'll see that their passion shows from the moment you walk in the door.
Reviewed on 15-04-2020

Lindsey Morfin (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 06-03-2020
No surprise here - had a fabulous experience. Natalie was a terrific bridal attendant and was literally prepared for everything - literally everything. Mike coordinated and executed everything to perfection - from vendors and decoration he was great. The FOOD was amazing - everyone said they've never had such good food at a wedding ever. Gary was great to work with as well, very flexible and ensured we were putting on a fantastic event.
Reviewed on 29-03-2020

Jaclyn Deneen (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 27-09-2019
The Mansion at Oyster Bay exceeded our expectations in all aspects! We had guests complimenting everything from the beautiful scenery on the driveway leading up, to the gorgeous woodwork in the mansion. Our outdoor ceremony was beautiful! The food was so great that I cannot put it into words. We had guests who are chefs at other vendors make it a point to tell us that our wedding was the most delicious food they've ever had. We were able to visit the location multiple times before our wedding day to get the best visualization of where everything would be (photobooth, tables, DJ, etc). Emily (our coordinator) was prompt and knowledgeable from the first day we met. She answered emails almost immediately. When she was not completely sure about something she consulted her colleagues and got us all of the information we needed. Natalie was my attendant the day of our wedding. She was personable and sweet and had anything I needed every time I turned around. Our maitr'd was changed midway through planning, which made us nervous at first. However, Mike was unbelievable. He was eager to please us, our families and our guests. He coordinated all of our different vendors - floral setup, two photographers, two videographers, one drone, string quartet, DJ, ice sculpture setup, photobooth, cigar roller, scotch bar - I don't think that all of our ideas would have ran so smoothly without Mike's skills. I cannot say enough how much I loved our day and how amazing it was to work with The Mansion at Oyster Bay.
Reviewed on 24-02-2020

Julia Mule (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 24-01-2020
I don't even know where to begin. The Mansion at Oyster Bay was the only venue we saw and we were in love with it from the moment we walked in the door. It is so beautiful and welcoming and the staff is even more welcoming. We first met with Gary, who gave us our initial tour. Gary is a true professional in every sense of the word. He worked with us every step of the way and clearly cares about making sure you will have an incredible wedding. I also worked with Emily, when I had questions, who was always so helpful and quick to respond to anything. Now to the wedding day, I imagined it was going to go perfect but it truly exceeded all of our expectations. Our Maitre D was Michael and Natalie was our bridal attendant. Michael was so incredible to work with, always very calm and really made the night go so smoothly. He truly made sure every aspect went according to plan and that we were always taken care of. Natalie was an absolute angel. She held my train basically all day, got me anything I needed, took care of our 18 person bridal party and made it look so easy!! She even took such beautiful pictures of us which she sent to me afterwards. I will never forget her or any of the staff. Every guest said the food was absolutely amazing and it WAS!! I will also never forget those mini cheeseburgers. Do yourself a favor and book The Manson at Oyster Bay for your wedding or any event. They truly are worth it. I will definitely have them, or any Lessing's venue, in mind for our future events.
Reviewed on 28-01-2020

Mike Sorenson (groom) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 22-11-2019
I cannot say enough good things about the Mansion and their staff. From the first time walking in and meeting with Gary, my wife and I knew we were going to get married there. Gary walked us through every step of the way leading up to the wedding, and it couldn't have been more painless. The night of, Mike and Natalie were absolutely incredible. Anything we wanted or needed, they were all over it before we could even finish asking basically. The venue is gorgeous, the food is delicious, the staff is perfect. We're waiting for someone else we know to get married there simply so we can see everyone again and relive such an amazing night. The perfect place on Long Island to get married, hands down.
Reviewed on 15-01-2020

Jeanine Haire (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 04-01-2020
I do not have enough great things to say about the Mansion at Oyster Bay. My wedding was INCREDIBLE and it was all thanks to Gary, Emily and the amazing team there. They were beyond helpful, honest and just all around fantastic. Every single one of my guests has told me that the venue was beautiful, the food was outstanding and the night was definitely one to remember. Mike our Matre'D executed a party seamlessly, and my bridal attendant Stephanie was everything I needed-- I felt like she was reading my mind!!! If I could give them more then 5 stars, I would. They completely surpassed my expectations, and I couldn't be more grateful to each and every one of the team for giving me the wedding of my dreams!!
Reviewed on 07-01-2020

Sarah Beling (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 14-12-2019
We were married on December 14th and are still reliving the magic of The Mansion at Oyster Bay--working with them was the BEST decision we made in our wedding planning! From start to finish, Emily and the team at Oyster Bay were incredibly organized, kind and thoughtful. They were also incredibly transparent in their pricing and communication of all costs involved, which was much appreciated in our financial planning!! Emily and team were always available to answer questions and make helpful suggestions to make our day smooth and stress free. On the day of we didn't need to worry about any logistics, which allowed us to truly be present and enjoy the day--Emily, Mike (our Maître D), and Stephanie (our bridal attendant) thought of everything down to making us a plate of our (delicious!) cocktail hour food to enjoy together before rejoining our guests. And while we're on food--the cocktail hour and dinner food offerings at Oyster Bay are spectacular! There is so much variety and it is easy to offer something delicious for everyone--our guests were raving about everything for days afterward! Oyster Bay also works with and provides a delicious cake from local bakery Dortoni's, which was absolutely divine. Oyster Bay worked seamlessly with every one of our vendors and ensured that everything looked, tasted, and sounded incredible. We are so happy and would recommend that anyone in need of a wedding venue contact The Mansion at Oyster Bay ASAP!
Reviewed on 23-12-2019

Altagrace Richiez (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 10-11-2019
My husband and I had our wedding here in November and OMG. Best decision we made for the wedding. It was absolutely perfect because Gary, my fairy Godfather, and the rest of the team truly cared for our vision. They will listen to you and do exactly what you need, but if you have a not so great idea, they won't hesitate to make recommendations which I LOVED! Excellent service is also being consultative with the goal in mind.Anything that I forgot for the day of, like my sweetheart's table centerpiece, was taken care of. My husband says this was the fanciest and best house party ever lol We planned this wedding 5,000 miles away and it still went off without a hitch because of the support we had. You won't regret having your wedding here. It's worth every penny, the grounds are gorgeous even in November, and the place is yours for the day. No matter how big your wedding is, it somehow will still feel intimate.Thank you Gary, Mike, and Natalie for being the absolute best!!!! Our wedding day memories will always include your amazing team <3
Reviewed on 21-12-2019

Wizerlynn M. (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 17-02-2019
Words cannot explain how satisfied my husband I were with the venue and the staff. Gary and his team are phenomenal! They were accommodating and professional at the same time. Gary was great to work with up to the day of our wedding. He made planning much easier because when we had questions, he was able to answer them. Then the day of the wedding came and thanks to the entire team, everything was perfect - from the moment we step foot to get ready to the very last dance. Our guest could not stop talking about how beautiful the mansion is and how we made it look like our own for the day with all of our personal photos displayed around the house. They also could not stop talking about how amazing the food and drinks were! From the cocktail hour, where we were able to put personal touches to the hors d'oeuvres to the main course; all of our guest and including us loved it! Till this day, my husband and I still cannot stop talking about how great our experience at the Mansion at Oyster Bay was. We highly recommend this venue to anyone that is planning to get married.
Reviewed on 11-12-2019

Stephanie Gallery (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 01-12-2019
The Mansion at Ouster Bay is where you NEED to get married. Our December 1st wedding was flawless and we've been hearing non-stop that the food, decor, and most importantly, service, was superb. The venue truly speaks for itself in regards to charm and beauty. Gary and Emily worked with us to get the day planned, providing us all of the details we needed to feel comfortable. We were planning from out of state and their response time to emails and calls was FAST.But the day of team was really what shined. After our walk through the day before with Michael, our maître d', we knew we were in the best possible plans. He even stayed late after a wedding the night before to make sure all of our decorations were set up by 9am the next morning when we arrived. Natalie was our bridal attendant and she was attentive, fun, friendly -- I felt like she could have thrown on a bridesmaids dress and jumped in! She is also an expert at bustling gowns.Our food was a standout. All of our guests commented on the crab cakes and the chicken in puff pastry with risotto for dinner. Dortonis made our cake which was spectacular as well.Overall, we couldn't have asked for a better day. The staff was professional, fun, and felt like family. Love to Mike and Natalie - we'll be back to get dinner at the restaurant next December 1st.
Reviewed on 09-12-2019

Marissa Burke (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 14-09-2019
My husband and I got married at The Mansion at Oyster Bay in September and we couldn't and it was the best day of our lives. Gary helped us through the whole wedding process and was nothing short of amazing. He is extremely knowledgable and hardworking. Always quick to answer questions and was very helpful! On the day of the wedding Gary, Michael and Natalie were amazing. From the minute we walked in to the minute we left they were all unbelievable. They took care of all our requests and made sure the day was seamless. The entire night and many nights after the wedding people were talking about how great the day/night were. Guests were commenting on the staff, food, cocktail hour, decor. If I could give The Mansion/ The Lessings at 10/10 I would. I highly recommend The Mansion for any wedding/event, we cant wait to work with them again in the future!
Reviewed on 04-12-2019

Shannon Collins (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 26-10-2019
I got married at The Mansion at Oyster Bay on 10/26/19 and it was literally the best day of my life. From our initial meeting with Gary up to our final goodbyes when we picked up our decorations from Michael after the wedding, everything went perfectly. The entire staff are kind, helpful, quick to respond, and made the whole process and especially the day of feel stress-free and easy. Michael, our maitre d, and Natalie, my bridal attendant, were absolutely fantastic. From the second we arrived they made sure all our needs were met, even ones we didn't think of! The entire night everyone was raving about how this was the best wedding they had ever been to (so many compliments on the staff, food, drinks, aesthetics, etc.). I highly recommend the mansion for weddings and other events and I sincerely hope to work with them again in the future! Thank you!
Reviewed on 29-10-2019

Kristen Harvey (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 05-01-2019
We had our wedding at the Mansion at Oyster Bay in January 2019. It was a great experience all around! Emily was FANTASTIC to work with! Always incredibly prompt in her responses, very organized, very helpful, and so understanding with all our many questions and requests. The Mansion was great to work with in terms of the menu. We got to pick from an ample list of options, and they are also open to customizing within that. We had guests that were vegetarian, vegan, gluten free, and with other food allergies, and the Mansion was incredibly accommodating to ensure everyone had great food to eat. The Mansion was also very helpful in terms of the other vendors. We went with their recommendations for limo service, hair/make-up, photography, and DJ. We selected these vendors via their bridal showcase, which made everything very easy. Myself and all of my bridesmaids as well as my mother got ready in the bridal suite at the Mansion. It's beautiful and very spacious! The Mansion was so kind to provide snacks, drinks, and wraps so that we were able to eat before the ceremony. The only thing we brought in was bagels for breakfast. Since our wedding was in January, we didn't really make use of the outdoor spaces, although they did provide heaters and a tent. For 125 people there was a good amount of space inside for the cocktail hour and reception. We looked at many venues for our wedding, and by far the Mansion was the most organized and professional. From start to finish they gave us the confidence that our wedding day would be perfect in their hands. We highly recommend the Mansion for your wedding!
Reviewed on 23-09-2019

Janis Kaiser (parent) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 02-08-2019
Recently we had our daughter and son-in-law‘s wedding at the Mansion at Oyster Bay. The wedding was outstanding and perfect in every way. We planned this wedding from out of state with Gary. He was a delight to work with and made all the arrangements effortless and to perfection!! Luis the maître d’ was more than wonderful and we cannot say enough about him. Due to Luis and the staff, the wedding day was perfect and exceeded our expectations in every way. Delia, The bridal attendant was by our sides all day and evening, she was wonderful. The food and service was exceptional and the ambience exquisite. If we could the give the Mansion a 10 star rating we would. The wedding at The Mansion was a day that we and my daughter and son-in-law? as well as family and friends will always remember as a perfect and memorable day !🌸
Reviewed on 22-08-2019

Marie Tibball (parent) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 09-08-2019
My daughter just got married 8/9/19 at the Mansion, it was the first place she looked at and checked out 10 other venues and came right back to the Mansion! The wedding of her dreams came true, the one and only wedding at a time is key and the beautifully renovated mansion became our entire families home for the day. Gary, Michael, Emily, the entire staff, but especially her bridal attendant Delia, are the most attentive people I have ever met. Besides the food being top notch, the entire property inside and out are exceptionally gorgeous! We couldn't have asked for anything more!
Reviewed on 13-08-2019

Gina D (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 07-08-2019
The Mansion is one of the best kept secrets on Long Island. I just had my wedding here and would love to share my amazing experience. Also, I was raised on Long Island I have been to 15+ weddings on long island, and all were at other well known venues. Location: Turning on to the mansion grounds there is a quarter mile drive that has the most picturesque views. Evergreens, pastures, hills, and weeping willows, as far as the eye can see. A whimsical view that instantly draws itself different than most wedding venues on long island. Off the bat I knew I did not want to be in a wedding hall located on a main road with limited views. I also knew I wanted to be the only wedding that night and not a place considered “a factory.” If you are in the same boat- you need to visit the mansion. Our photographers were in heaven because there was so many amazing views for us to use and not just one little area for pictures. The Facilities: The Mansion is something out of a dream. The best way I can describe beautiful, classy, authentic, a feeling of “old money” charm and decor. There is NOTHING “cheesy”, over- done, over crystalized, obnoxious, pretentious, or overstated about the Mansion as MANY venues on Long Island might be considered. There was gorgeous fireplaces with Mantles, gorgeous wood details, and gorgeous views from every room. I did not want a hall that held a cocktail hour in a basement- as most halls do. It as is you were are inviting people into your families gorgeous estate for your event. Other selling points for us was the outdoor cocktail area spaces had beautiful views and ample space. We also had our after hours party on the rooftop! This was a huge selling point for me because I have experienced so many weddings with after parties at hotels and they always horrible. There is always a huge time gap, the party dies out, and who wants to buy their own drinks at an after party? Our guests were directed upstairs where we had a steal drum reggae band, more food and drinks, and ample space to dance, or just relax and hang out. This blew people away that our after party was at the Mansion- but in an entirely different setting. Also did I mention we had 330 guests? Space was NEVER an issue for us. Staff: From the moment we met Gary we knew we were in the right place. You can tell he had tremendous experience and was going to do everything he can to make the day perfect for us. I cannot thank him enough, or recommend him enough. He is top notch, and knows what he is doing. He made us feel like our wedding was the most important event that the Mansion was ever having. Luis was an AMAZING matire-D. He was on top of everything, everything he did was handled with grace and class. Our bridal suite attendant Rebecca was outstanding. She went above and beyond. My dress bustle broke she fixed it in seconds. She knew what she knew exactly what she was doing helped in so many ways. Food: OUT OF THIS WORLD. I have reached my max amount of words just know it was the most amazing day and my family and friends were all blown away!
Reviewed on 07-08-2019

Jackie Russo (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 13-07-2019
We are so happy that we chose The Mansion at Oyster Bay for our July 2019 wedding! It was such a wonderful evening! From the very start of our planning process, we found Gary and his assistant, Emily, to be very responsive and accommodating. They answered all of our questions in a timely manner. They welcomed us to visit the Mansion with our florist for planning purposes and also a few weeks before the wedding to figure out the sound system for our after-party playlist. Luis, our maître ‘d, and Delia, our bridal attendant, were phenomenal! Luis was attentive to every detail of the event, and Delia was so kind and upbeat. Delia took care of everything that I needed without me even asking. She even sewed a tux button back on for my husband. The food during our cocktail hour and dinner was delicious. Delia made sure that we were able to taste our cocktail hour food in between taking photos and joining our guests at cocktail hour. We can’t say enough about our positive experience with this venue!
Reviewed on 07-08-2019

Rob DePaolo (groom) 5 out of 5 Rating

We had our wedding here on 5/25/19. From our first meeting with Gary Schneider, to the day of our party, he was always easily accessible, answered every question we had, and really put a lot of effort into making our vision come to life. Everything was perfect.. from the food, to the decor, drinks, grounds, and service. Gary and his team really nailed it. We had Luis Salguero as our Matri'd the night of the wedding and I would highly recommend requesting him! Luis was so on point and made everything run smoothly. My wife also loved our bridal attendant. She was great but I cannot remember her name. All in all, book this venue if you are looking for an unbelievable wedding celebration and a night to really remember. Thank you guys!Rob & Demetria DePaolo
Reviewed on 06-08-2019

Brooke Melzer (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 20-07-2019
If I could give this venue more stars I would! We had our wedding July 20, 2019 at the Mansion. This might have been the hottest and most humid day of the summer, and the team at the Mansion at Oyster Bay made our event one to remember. We had the pleasure of working with Gary for all the “before the wedding” planning. He was so helpful and made the planning process a breeze for us. The day of the wedding we were lucky to have Delia and Luis as our team. Delia was incredible and helped us every second. Even in the over 100 degree heat, she was outside with us as we took our couple pictures and bridal party picture and had water and a cooling towel on hand. She even had to sew my brother in laws pants, sisters strap of dress, and created a bustle for my mother’s dress as it was too long throughout the evening. Delia was the person who every bride should be lucky enough to work with as a bridal attendant. Her smile and happiness for us was evident from 12:30 in the afternoon to 1:30 the next morning. Luis was just as great with the logistics of running our wedding as smooth as possible. We could have not asked for a better team. The Mansion at Oyster Bay is as beautiful inside as it is outside. The grounds outside are gorgeously decorated with trees, plants, and flowers. The inside of the Mansion was just as gorgeous with marble black and white floors, paintings along the walls, candles all over the place, and a drop dead gorgeous reception room. The food was outstanding and service was incredible. The Mansion worked seamlessly with all our vendors and worked as a team to make our vision as perfect as we imagined. Thank you to everyone who was at the Mansion at Oyster Bay the day of our wedding and made our day as smooth and perfect as possible. We highly recommend this venue for any bride and groom looking for the most amazing wedding experience.
Reviewed on 05-08-2019

Joe Russo (other) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 13-07-2019
We had our daughter’s wedding at the Mansion at Oyster Bay on July 13, 2019. I was an exceptional event! Our experience with Gary Schneider was positive from the first day we met through the day of the event. The maître ‘d, Luis, was on top of every detail and both he and his staff executed flawlessly. The bridal attendant Delia went above and beyond to see that the entire bridal party was happy. The food at the cocktail hour was amazing as were the salad, entrées and desserts. The venue itself is beautiful including the outdoor space. If you are considering places for a wedding reception, the Mansion at Oyster Bay is one that you will want to explore.
Reviewed on 22-07-2019

Sara Gerrity (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 15-06-2019
We are so happy we chose the Mansion at Oyster Bay for our wedding venue. Gary, Emily and the rest of the Mansion staff were so easy to work with during the planning process. They made everything so easy, and fun! On our wedding day, everyone was amazing, and so helpful- we felt like royalty. We had Rebecca as our bridal attendant, and Luis as our Maitre D. The service, food and ambiance were all perfect. Thank you to everyone at the Mansion for making our dreams come true!
Reviewed on 21-07-2019

Stephanie Pappas (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 08-04-2020
This was the first venue my fiance and I checked out for our wedding and we fell IN LOVE! We met with Emily and she was so wonderful to work with. Emily answered all of our questions and was extremely nice. I am happy to say that we are having our wedding here in 2020.
Reviewed on 21-07-2019

Michele Grieco (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 23-11-2018
My husband and I had an exceptional experience at Mansion at Oyster Bay. Gary was our banquet manager, and he was an absolute pleasure to work with. On a side note, we switched our wedding reception venue 4 weeks before we were suppose to get married (our previous vendor told us that we would be their last wedding and could not guarantee that it would be fully staffed). Despite only having 4 weeks to have all the details in order, Gary went above and beyond to make our special day flawless. He was really organized and was meticulous in regards to the details involving the wedding. Luis was our maitre’ d who was also great. Luis promptly provided us with drinks throughout the evening, brought us food from the cocktail hour in the bridal suite before we greeted our guests (yes we actually ate at our wedding), and helped add a plate to a table at the last minute (because my dad’s cousin’s wife decided to come last minute lol). Natalie was my bridal attendant and was amazing. She helped me bustle my dress with safety pins once my prefabricated bustle did not hold, and she was very attentive anytime I needed food or drinks throughout the night. The food was fantastic and the wooden floors of the main hall allowed for a limitless dance floor. The venue has many great areas to take awesome wedding photos such as an elegant staircase and charming fireplaces. I have nothing bad to say about this wedding reception venue. You should definitely book your wedding here!
Reviewed on 15-07-2019

Lauren Kiraly (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 04-01-2019
We had our wedding here on 01-04-19 and it was truly the best day of our lives!! Gary and Emily were extremely responsive and easily accessible to answer any and all of our questions. They helped us create our perfect wedding day every step of the way! The day of our wedding, Luis and Delia were working so hard to make sure everything ran smoothly. Delia took the extra time to recurl my hair and always had my lipstick on hand. This team of professionals truly stand out and will make your day perfect. The set up was beautiful, the food was DELICIOUS, and it’s so special to have this whole mansion to yourself on your wedding day. Hours before our reception began, the mansion was able to accommodate our large bridal party and family members that arrived early. You will not be disappointed booking your wedding day here!!
Reviewed on 11-07-2019

Azadeh Malekan (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 23-06-2019
Every wedding is beautiful but our wedding at The Mansion at Oyster Bay on June 23 was remarkable. Gary is a wonderful human being, and extremely good at what he does. His assistant Emily is lovely to work with and was helpful throughout the entirety of the wedding planning process. And the day of --- what a special day it was with the support of Luis, our brilliant Maître d'who orchestrated every detail with a calm demeanor, rendering great success. He is as personable as he is knowledgable, and helped cultivate an evening of great joy. Rebecca, the beautiful bridal attendant was by my side the entire day ( a fellow teacher -- which explains her huge heart) -- ensuring I had every tangible thing I needed (advil, a proper bustle for my dress, water, tequila), and all the emotional support I so appreciated. The Venue is divine -- as my husband and I were given such glaring reviews about the cozy yet elegant nature of The Mansion by our guests. Words can not yield justice to all of the amazing staff who contributed their exceedingly knowledgable and gregarious efforts to creating the most flawless wedding day possible. The beauty of the grounds, the warmth of the Mansion, the kindness of each and every staff member, bartender, server, and higher up makes you feel as if you are not only supported, but you are being celebrated. Our hearts are grateful that we found the Mansion at Oyster Bay and will continue to sing its praises. The Venue embraced our Persian Cultural requests and was open and successfully accommodated our Deaf guests in attendance, ensuring that they had full accessibility. At one point, Luis mediated a last minute issue with our DJ promoting calm and demonstrating that his personality is perfect for the job that he does. The staff was also smiling the whole evening -- making us feel like they were part of our special day. A million thanks to Gary, Emily, Luis, Rebecca and the entire staff at The Mansion at Oyster Bay. You are forever etched as part of hearts and we are gleaming with gratitude.
Reviewed on 06-07-2019

Claudia Catapano (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 22-06-2019
The mansion at Oyster Bay (10+) the team there went above and beyond our expectations. Steve Kirshbaum- General Manager is the most amazing person to work with. He made sure to set us up with a great team!! He took care of us and made sure everything went great!!! Our maître d’- Luis, truly made sure of every single detail. From the centerpieces to the cake cutting. Everything went flawless. Literally not one thing went wrong. He was friendly and helpful from the day we met and took very detailed notes of what I had planned. My bridal attendant- Tori, was amazingly perfect!!!! If you get married there I would request to have her. She will definitely make you feel calm and prepare you step by step as to what to expect. She has such a calm demeanor that I found that that helped me calm down from all the craziness and take a deep breath and enjoy OUR wedding. She made sure that my husband and I had time for ourselves and made sure that we enjoyed our wedding. Neither of us needed anything throughout our wedding because she was already five steps ahead of us.
Reviewed on 05-07-2019

Millie S (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 18-05-2019
I cannot even begin to express how incredible our wedding at The Mansion was! Weeks later, we are still receiving calls of how it was the best wedding our guests have ever been to. Gary did an incredible job to make sure our wedding was perfect and it truly was!! Luis and Delia were by our sides the entire day and were on top of every single detail. We did not need to worry about a thing and were able to enjoy every moment. Beyond my vision of a perfect wedding day!
Reviewed on 18-06-2019

Janet P (parent) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 08-06-2019
What can I say? I have nothing but good things to say about the Mansion. My daughter’s wedding was beyond amazing! The food, the service, the mansion itself, everything was wonderful! Luis, our maitre d was great, always there, making sure my daughter and son in law had anything they wanted. And Gary, he was there from the first day til the wedding day, making sure everything was perfect for them on their special day. It’s the little things that added to this beautiful day, Luis met us at the door with food and drink, and Gary saw I was not eating and pulled out my chair and told me to sit and enjoy my dinner. I have not seen this attention given to anyone at a wedding I have attended. Everything was just as I had hoped it to be and our guests enjoyed the food and the atmosphere immensely. Thank you again to Gary, Luis and the entire staff for making this day so unforgettable! I hope to be invited to another wedding at the Mansion!
Reviewed on 15-06-2019

Lauren Wengenosky (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 10-05-2019
Our bridal attendant Delia made our night perfect. Our maitre Dee Louis took care of everything. Gary was helpful and on top of each detail along the way. The food was amazing, cocktail hour was a dream and our rooftop after party was something we will never forget. Thank you Mansion at Oyster Bay!!!!!! It was our dream wedding!
Reviewed on 07-06-2019

Mary S (parent) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 18-05-2019
On May 18, 2019 I hosted my daughter and son-in-law’s wedding at the Mansions at Oyster Bay. During the after party they told me it was the best day of their life. Gary and his entire staff including Luis our Matre D, Delia my daughter’s bridal attendant made that happen. From the moment we arrived til the end of the evening they all worked tirelessly to make sure that every attention to detail was met. The food, both during cocktail hour and reception, was absolutely delicious and served beautifully. I’m still receiving calls a week later on how magnificent the day was. I thank everyone at the Mansions from the bottom of my heart for delivering a spectacular day as promised!
Reviewed on 27-05-2019

Katherine Fleming (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 30-03-2019
From the moment we walked into the Mansion, there wasn't a doubt in my mind that we wouldn't book this beautiful vintage venue. But Gary made it that much easier for us. He was welcoming but not pushy, flexible with requests, and a delight to work with from start to finish. He encourages you to reach out and ask any question you may have and answers right away. And our maitre'D Luis, as well as Delia, my bridal attendant, made sure the night ran smoothly, paying attention to every last detail. They were quick on their feet predicting and preventing last minute hiccups before they even had a chance to happen. I trusted them to make sure our night was perfect, and they came through until the very end! They made sure we were always comfortable and taken care of, that we looked our best, and they were very cognizant that we had time to ourselves, as well as time to eat/drink/socialize. They worked well with the other vendors (band/photographers/videographers) to coordinate all of the pieces happening at once. If I had to choose the Mansion again, I would choose it over and over! I would recommend to anyone who wants a truly spectacular night, with delicious food, great atmosphere and an extraordinary staff.
Reviewed on 24-05-2019

Madeline DiBenedetto (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 26-04-2019
My Husband and I just recently had our reception at the Mansion on 4/26/19. I need to sincerely express my appreciation for the wonderful crew of this establishment and the property itself. I will start with the people who helped make this night PERFECT! Gary, was our go-to throughout the entire process and we couldn't have asked for a better person to help coordinate our very special day. He was flexible, knowledgeable, personable, always available when we needed him and so easy to talk to especially when bouncing around ideas :) He even went as far as coming up with fun names for our signature drinks! This experience was made easier because of him. Our Maitre D' Luis was exceptional in keeping everything organized that day/night. Something very important that he had said to us when discussing the timing & flow of the evening was \"I want to make sure your food is served hot and your drinks are served cold\" and he 100% delivered exactly that! Last but not least is my Bridal Attendant Delia. Delia if you're reading this THANK YOU - for always keeping a drink in my hand (even while I was on the dancefloor), for fixing & re-curling my hair due to the rain, for making me and the rest of my girls laugh anytime you were in our presence and for making sure I was well taken care of, which I was – thanks to you. You are wonderful!The food was absolutely delicious. All 240 of our guests raved about it! It was so good, that my husband and I made sure to eat everything we could (we refused to be too busy socializing to miss out lol) One thing that we loved and appreciated was at the start of cocktail hour when they had my husband and I eat alone in the bridal suite. They served us every station and every passed hors d'oeuvre so that we were able to try everything. Delia told us even if it's just for 15 min, to take this moment just us 2 and let it soak in while we eat, relax and have some time to ourselves for as long as we wanted before joining our guests. We didn’t realize we needed that little bit of alone time until then, and we appreciated them giving that to us.The Mansion itself felt magical. It was ours for the night to decorate and personalize as we pleased. As large as it was it still held an intimate feel which was exactly what we were looking for. I can’t praise The Mansion at Oyster Bay and it’s wonderful and professional employees enough! Thank you for giving us the best night ever!
Reviewed on 15-05-2019

Tara Young (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 24-05-2019
The Mansion is stunning, and Gary and his team are outstanding in every way. They worked closely with my mother- and father-in-law to host our pre-wedding reception in April 2019. My fiance and I live in DC and get married there in May, so this was a celebration for his family's community in Long Island. My in-laws were in touch with the venue starting last October, and since the first interaction, Gary was warm, welcoming, attentive, responsive, open to all requests, and eager to meet every need. You never know what you are going to get from a venue (as I can attest to my experiences in DC) and the Mansion experience was truly beyond expectations in every way. My mother-in-law put so much love and thought into the reception, and Gary was a true partner to make sure her vision came to life. Our reception was beautiful: from how guests were welcomed into the space, guest journey from one room to another, presentation of and quality of the food, lighting, sound quality, table settings, all of it. The team was able to meet all requests, even last minute ones, with grace and a smile. The staff is well-trained, and Alex was instrumental in keeping the trains running throughout the event. Our sincerest thanks for a celebration we will always cherish. And our highest recommendation for anyone to choose the Mansion, Gary and his team for your next event.
Reviewed on 28-04-2019

Lisa Karcich (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 23-03-2019
I can't adequately put into words how happy we are with our decision to host our wedding reception at The Mansion at Oyster Bay. Obviously the building and grounds are beautiful and have so many fantastic backdrops for pictures. Seeing how Lessing's has invested in the mansion since taking over management is really fantastic (pull up pictures of The Woodlands to see for yourself)!We'd been to events at other Lessing's venues before and were confident that we'd be in good hands at The Mansion at Oyster Bay. What we didn't know when we first walked in was just how wonderful it would be to work with Gary, Emily, Luis, and Natalie throughout the entire process, from the moment we walked in the door for our initial tour to days after the wedding (when we returned yet again to pick up an envelope that was left behind). We were always confident that we were in good hands, always felt like we were being put on a pedestal for our special day, and ultimately had a fantastic wedding! I've run corporate events before, so I have an idea of what goes on behind the scenes for a large event like this, and Luis and Natalie were on their game all night. They were right there when we needed them, sometimes before we even knew we needed them, and helped when some unexpected hiccups popped up during the night.The entire staff and The Mansion at Oyster Bay helped make our wedding perfect. We're only a week post-wedding and we've received so many compliments on the venue, the food, the staff, etc. Our only wish is that we can come back as a guest for someone else's wedding!
Reviewed on 01-04-2019

Brigid Martin (bride) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 15-03-2019
An absolutely flawless experience. I was so blown away by the level of care that each person put into the event. The staff at The Mansion went above and beyond to execute our vision for our literary themed wedding. It was better than anything I could have ever imagined. The Maitre d' was helpful and available at all times. His organization and charisma added to the nights seamless experience. Our Bridal Attendant was an amazing heaven sent goddess. She anticipated every possible need we could have had during the evening. We didn’t need to ask for a single thing because she knew what we wanted even before we did. I was about to eat a tray of juicy lamb pops over my white dress without a second thought. Before I could even reach for the plate, she came running over and placed a napkin over my dress. Everyone at the mansion made us feel so special without being too invasive. We had an amazing time as well as the rest of our guests because of the hard work of all of the staff members who made the night perfect. The Mansion at Oyster Bay is a well oiled machine and we cannot recommend them enough!!!!! You should totally get married there.
Reviewed on 18-03-2019

Mike G (parent) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 23-11-2018
PART 1 - Review of the Mansion at Oyster Bay - I was the father of the bride this past November 2018.As importantly, I played 100+ weddings over approx 11 years in a wedding band playing keyboards and guitar.When my wedding band played, we had the same goals as the bride and groom regarding the party. We wanted people to have a great time dancing, laughing and an unforgettable night. To accomplish this, we developed a checklist to offer brides to consider when making decisions about where to have the party and what to do during the party. One of the major items on the checklist was the reception room.The reception room at The Mansion at Oyster Bay is darn near perfect and has all of these important characteristics:1 - All hardwood floors-\tThe sound will have a little extra reverb and carry to it.-\tNo one dances on carpet. Carpet imposes limits on where people will dance. An all hardwood floor provides a never ending dance floor.-\tEveryone dances on an all hardwood floor because there are no limits to the dance floor; there are no excuses to stand on a rug and not dance. There is less of a psychological barrier to dancing. 2 - Music (the band or DJ) should have their backs to one of the two longest walls of the rectangular room-\tIn this formation, most tables are to the left and right of the music, not in front. Therefore, the music volume will not blow out any guests so they can have conversations, but will be loud enough for the dance floor. In addition, the guest’s tables are closer to the music and it is guaranteed that more people will dance. -\tIf the music has their back to one of the shorter walls, it’s like playing to a hallway, with tables lining the left and right sides of a narrow hallway. Guests are less likely to dance because they are farther away from the music in this formation. In addition, the music is hitting the guests straight on at their tables, and may be too loud for them to enjoy and talk to each other3 - Bathrooms – In a good scenario, as noted above, the music has their backs to one of the longest two walls of the rectangular room. In a perfect scenario, exits from the reception room to restrooms will be opposite the music so guests don’t cross dance floor or come anywhere near the band or DJs and interfere with dancing. Trust me; this is a subtle but significant positive.
Reviewed on 04-03-2019

Michael Ripp (groom) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 29-12-2018
The mansion, the staff and the wedding were all incredible. Gary is extremely helpful and accommodating and the whole night went perfectly. The food is top notch and the space is perfect for a large (250-300) wedding. We had compliments all night and for many days after, and we couldn't be happier with how the night played out. Thanks to all the staff for an incredible evening.
Reviewed on 23-01-2019

Jennifer McGowan (parent) 5 out of 5 Rating
Wedding Date 05-10-2018
My husband and I were so impressed with how my daughter's wedding day went from beginning to end. Gary was amazing; every time we met with him he was professional but what impressed me and my husband was the caring way he handled every detail as if our daughter was one of his family members. Louise made the day flow so smoothly and the best part was he handled everything with such ease and made sure all we had to do was enjoy the day worry free. Natalie was an angel; my daughter said she was always there for her and my son-in-law and made them feel like royalty. Jonathan was incredible; I don't know how he did it but he seem to always appear at the very moment you needed something as if he could read your mind. The chef and his team made the most incredible, delicious, mouth watering dishes and the way they were presented were elegantly done. The waiters, waitresses, bartenders and bathroom attendants were terrific and their five star service completed the most elegant wedding we could have ever dreamed of giving our daughter. I had so many calls and texts the next day from family and friends telling us how great our daughter's wedding was and complementing the venue and the staff. They talked about the delicious food, the amazing waiters, waitresses and bartenders, the beauty of The Mansion at Oyster Bay and for me the best was they all ended the call or text with our daughter's wedding was the best wedding they have ever attended. My cousin was so impressed she told me that when her daughter gets older and its time to book her wedding she will be booking The Mansion at Oyster Bay. I am so grateful to everyone at The Mansion at Oyster Bay for making my daughter's wedding day even better than me or my husband could have ever dreamed .
Reviewed on 03-12-2018

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