The Refuge Golf Club is a beautiful wedding venue in Oak Grove, MN. Christa & Lisa are our on-site wedding coordinators. Between the two of them they have 12+ years planning events and weddings. They have coordinated at least 500 weddings over the years. Knowing they have a wide range of experience in the field will ensure you have a well-executed event!
Our beautiful clubhouse features scenic views, a large (private) completely covered patio for your social hour, a full-service banquet kitchen and bar, a large dance floor, tables, chairs, custom table linens, a wedding suite, and all the special items you need.
For on-site ceremonies, you can choose between the pavilion or the patio. While the pavilion is set against a lush green lawn surrounded by beautiful mature trees and seasonal flowers, the patio overlooks our 18th hole and provides shelter in case of rain. We also offer an indoor cozy fireplace setting for winter ceremonies!
We can't wait to meet you and tell you more about all we have to offer!
Beautiful venue with great service. Reviewed on 13-01-2024
Addie Wadzink(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Lisa was so helpful and made the experience wonderful. From the tour of the venue to the big day, she was there for any questions and to help in any way! The venue catering staff were also amazing. We had so many compliments on the food, and service. It was an easy choice of venue, a great package deal, and honesty on what prices are and creating a unique package specific to your wants and needs for your special day. The Refuge also shares recommendations for other vendors they've worked with in the past, we used a couple of them which made the process so easy. Again, Lisa was amazing along with the catering staff. Can't say enough good things, and wish we could have a replay of our special day! Reviewed on 20-12-2023
Christoher Boeve(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Our wedding day was perfect and effortless!!! Thanks to the absolutely fantastic staff and service we never had to worry about a thing. From initial planning to our actual wedding day Lisa helped us every step of the way. The Refuge Golf club had everything taken care of and for a very affordable price(relatively speaking) we feel they have amazing value. The venue was cozy and perfect. The food options are plentiful and absolutely delicious. We were most thrilled and very happy with the excellent service from all the kitchen staff! Thanks to Lisa and her Excellent planning we didn't have to worry and nothing was missed at all. Highly recommend!!! Reviewed on 01-12-2023
Jessica Stephens(other)5 out of 5 Rating
We recently were married at the Refuge on November 10. It was a shorter engagement and a smaller wedding. Lisa at the Refuge was amazing, and I booked this venue due to her. She is responsive, knowledgeable, and wonderful to work with. The day of the event she made everything seamless from beginning to end. My guests raved about the food, a few guests saying the steak was one of the best they ever had. The bartender was amazing, and did a great job taking care of our family and loved ones. Overall, I would 100% recommend the Refuge to anyone looking for that special touch!! Reviewed on 29-11-2023
Megan Michael(other)5 out of 5 Rating
We couldn't have asked for much more during our wedding at The Refuge. Our coordinator, Lisa, was amazing with very quickly answering all of our questions before the event (and there were a lot!) and also with helping us decide on the best ways to remain within our budget. The grounds are absolutely beautiful and our photos were definitely enhanced by the beautiful scenery. Reviewed on 09-10-2023
Alaina Grant(other)5 out of 5 Rating
The Refuge was a great place to get married! The staff were so upfront about everything from the beginning. We talked about prices, available dates, and rain options all at the tour. We toured other places but were immediately taken in by their honesty and support. All of the staff there were amazing! We worked with Lisa as our coordinator and she was great to answer all of our questions leading up to the day - and we had a lot of them! They were easy to communicate with and we always got quick responses. We brought up possible ideas and scenarios and they made us feel comfortable while also giving their honest feedback and suggestions. They have done this so many times and seen it all so there isn't much that will phase them. We got so many compliments on the food and the overall service from the waitstaff and bartenders. The space itself was exactly what we needed with the ceremony under the gazeebo only a few steps from the main building. The flowers and overall landscape of the whole property was so beautiful and made for some amazing pictures. We got a perfect sunny day and the giant windows in the reception hall brought in so much light! We also asked for the string lights to be hung from the beams and they were also gorgeous. We had one small hiccup on the day where the photobooth we rented from them wasn't working properly. Lisa took it upon herself to tell us and find a new vendor if we approved. She found one the SAME DAY and made sure they had a meal and a seat. That could have been a huge bummer but she fixed the problem for us! They only have 1 getting ready room at the venue so we decided to get mostly ready off site and then just get dressed at the venue. The outside firepit and porch/tables were very appreciated by our guests so they had somewhere to be if they didn't want to be inside with the music all night. We brought corn hole to set up on the porch and it was a hit! Overall we would highly recommend this venue to anyone who wants amazing service and food at a beautiful venue for a price that was hard to find around the Twin Cities. Reviewed on 25-09-2023
Maddie Vespa(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Such an amazing experience getting married here! Lisa is just absolutely amazing to work with. Food was amazing, bartenders were great and venue is beautiful! Reviewed on 20-09-2023
Dani Keller(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Working with Christa at the Refuge was wonderful, she was so knowledgeable and willing to help in literally every single way possible. So beyond happy I chose the Refuge for our special day. Reviewed on 22-08-2023
Erika Duffy(other)5 out of 5 Rating
The Refuge Golf Club was an amazing venue! It was beautiful and reasonably priced! The service was great we had a little over 200 people and they got the food out so quickly and it tasted wonderful! The outdoor options and indoor are both great! We got married outside on the lawn and it was perfect! We highly highly recommend!! Reviewed on 08-08-2023
Nicole Jelmberg(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Lisa and the whole team at The Refuge Golf Club was amazing! Lisa was so professional, organized, and answered any and all questions I had so timely! She really made things easy in what can be a super stressful time. The Venue itself is so beautiful, it didn't require a ton of decor, and I was able to keep my decor minimal and simple. They had great options for food, and we received many compliments on the food and service! 100% recommend using the Refuge for your wedding! Reviewed on 07-06-2023
Annika Nelson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 20-05-2023 We got married at the Refuge in May! The flowers on site were in bloom so really didn’t need much decor outside. It was naturally beautiful!! We had great communication with Christa especially through all our many dumb last minute questions. Everyone loved the meal AND the late night nachos! The venue was gorgeous! We couldn’t have had a better day! Reviewed on 31-05-2023
Nik and Alyssa Bayer(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 15-04-2023 Highly recommend using the Refuge for your wedding! The venue is beautiful, the food was SO good, and Lisa is amazing to work with. We thought the pricing was super reasonable as well! From the initial planning to the day of, we were relatively stress free knowing we had Lisa's help to make sure the day went off without a hitch. You won't regret checking out the Refuge for your big day :) Reviewed on 30-05-2023
Raelyn Sampson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 25-03-2023 This venue is so naturally pretty! From the wood ceilings, the fireplace, all the way down to the chairs around the tables! It's so pretty year around. The food was AMAZING! Highly recommend the meat table with the prime rib. Lisa was our venue coordinator and she was so helpful and with me every step of the day including during the wedding day! She is so accommodating and works hard to make sure your day is exactly how you want it! Reviewed on 18-05-2023
Sydnee Katz(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-05-2023 Super flexible, easy to contact and extremely helpful staff :) Christa was my saving grace throughout the whole process! Venue is beautiful and all our guests loved it. Indoor and outdoor spaces make it perfect for everyone’s taste. Covered outdoor spaces helped us take amazing photos on our rainy wedding day! Reviewed on 14-05-2023
Emily Monson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 04-03-2023 The Refuge Golf Club is a gorgeous wedding venue and from our first visit we could tell this was where we were meant to get married! We received many compliments from guests on how beautiful the venue was and how smoothly everything went. We got married in March and the venue was perfect. There were so many great places for photos both inside and outside. Lisa, the wedding coordinator, was truly amazing and so helpful during the whole planning process, as well as on the wedding day. She was a lifesaver and went above and beyond to make sure our day went smoothly. Lastly, the food was amazing! We received many compliments from our guests on how delicious the food was! I would highly recommend getting married at the Refuge! Reviewed on 30-03-2023
Kayla Borglund(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 14-01-2023 The Refuge Golf Club was the perfect place for our winter wedding in 2023. The staff was extremely helpful throughout our whole year of planning and was always able to answer or questions or point us in the right direction. The Refuge has amazing food and all of our guests were thrilled. They allowed us to bring in all our own centerpieces and decor, making it a dream come true! We were able to go to the venue the day before to set up which took a lot of stress off of the wedding day.We loved our experience with The Refuge and would reccomended it to anyone looking for a rustic, whimsical, and beautfiul venue! A special thank you to Lisa for all of her time and efforts helping us plan the perfect day! Reviewed on 22-02-2023
Willa Oelkers(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-02-2023 We absolutely loved working with The Refuge for our February 2023 wedding. We received so many compliments on the venues natural beauty. Christa was our coordinator and was THE BEST to work with. So quick with communication and so kind and accommodating. All of the staff was wonderful, the bartender was great, everything was exactly the way we hoped for! Reviewed on 21-02-2023
Sydney Scott(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-01-2023 Such kind staff who were so helpful! Reviewed on 07-01-2023
Natalie McConnell(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 17-09-2022 We decided the Refuge Golf Club was a great spot for us to host our wedding back in September. Krista made things SO easy as she pretty much doubled as an event coordinator and I couldn't be happier with the turn out. The weather was unpredictable as it rained all morning but turned out to be a sunny warm day. The one thing I would recommend to anyone getting married here is the utilize all of the linen options they have! It was great to choose colors beforehand. I also hired a day of coordinator for just setting up decor and taking it down, that was by far the best decision I had made. Danielle Swanson Events is fantastic for that and very reasonable. The food was great! We chose the mango salsa pork chop and the sirloin steak. CHOOSE two potatoes, we did roasted and mashed and man they were both amazing. All in all, this is a GREAT place to get married. Reviewed on 22-12-2022
Jenna Jutila(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 09-12-2022 Absolutely loved this wedding venue. Not only beautiful, but great food and amazing service. We had so many guests love the ice cream bar that we decided to have! We had help the entire process and it was very easy to get in contact with them for any questions or changes that needed to be made. Reviewed on 20-12-2022
Amanda Tessling(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 02-12-2022 This venue was spectacular!! Our Coordinator Christa was amazing! she was always quick to respond to any questions or concerns we had and made sure the big day went smoothly! We had so many rave reviews from family and friends that the place, the food, the staff was nothing short of amazing. They absolutely made my day extra special. Reviewed on 04-12-2022
Jess DeMaria(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-11-2022 Beautiful place! Our day was perfect! Christa was excellent to work with. Very accommodating and professional! The food was amazing. I heard from several of our guest that the was the best food they have had at a wedding. Highly recommend. Reviewed on 14-11-2022
Greta Neseth(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 08-10-2022 I can't recommend The Refuge Golf Club enough! Our ceremony was at a church so my review is based on the reception but they do offer a ceremony option as well. We had Lisa Morin as our wedding coordinator. She was amazing to work with! She has background and experience and it showed! She was so helpful and gave us a lot of insight on various things that we would have never thought of while we were planning. During the reception, she noticed our desserts were going and went ahead and saved us one of our special pumpkin cookies to bring home, it was so thoughtful! The Refuge Golf Club itself is gorgeous! Even with minimal decorating it looks beautiful. There is plenty of parking and space both inside & outside. We brought yard games to keep kids busy & it worked great! The bon fire was also a huge hit, it was nice for a chilly fall night. The food though, the food was amazing! We went with plated dinners (oven roasted chicken, apple mango pork chop & fettuccini alfredo (vegetarian)). Our guests kept coming up to us throughout the night and telling us how great their food was. The chicken and pork chop were moist & juicy, lots of flavors. The mashed potatoes & green beans were hot- no one was served a cold meal (175 people) & the alfredo was a generous serving. I felt the pricing per plate was very affordable compared to other venues we looked at. We had appetizers and late night snacks as well -both were a hit with the guests & everyone loved them. Another thing I really appreciated about our experience with working with The Refuge was that we were able to decorate the Friday before the wedding. Lisa reached out, let us know that there were no weddings or events planned for Friday so we could come decorate the venue if we wanted to. It was a huge stress reliever - I was able to help decorate it and didn't have to leave it up to someone else to do. They didn't have to let us come in a day early but they did and it meant a lot to us. I'm not sure how often this happens, but I really appreciated being offered. As I said earlier, we didn't have our ceremony there but we were still able to use the bridal suite. It's a nice, quiet, and private area with it's own bathroom! We and the bridal party were able to keep our personal belongings there without worry someone may get into it. It also provided a nice escape for when we just needed to catch out breath (we're introverts).Overall, we had a great experience and I would recommend The Refuge Golf Club to everyone looking for a beautiful, reliable, picture perfect venue. Reviewed on 25-10-2022
Caitlin Reineke(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 01-10-2022 The Refuge could not have been a more perfect venue for our day! Everything about it is beautiful - the outdoor ceremony space lined with mauve hydrangeas, the timbers and floor to ceiling stone fireplace, natural wood chairs in the reception hall, just the whole look as you drive up! But on top of that the food was amazing! We were told by many that it was some of the best wedding food they’d had. No dry chicken complaints and everything seemed very fresh! Even beyond all of that you will not find a better staff to work with! We worked with Christa who is just a rockstar coordinator. She is unbelievably responsive and willing to work with you on anything to make your day perfect! She kept our day running smoothly and if there were any hiccups we didn’t know! Reviewed on 08-10-2022
Lindsay Isaacson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 10-09-2022 The Refuge was absolutely perfect for our wedding. We have nothing bad to say. Our day went very smooth and Christa was attentive throughout the entire process. They are very upfront about what is included and don’t try to nickel and dime you for every little thing. They communicated very well and answered all questions and emails promptly especially the week leading up to the wedding. The day of things were amazing, Christa made sure we were on time for everything and also checked in to make sure everything was going well throughout the day. The service for food was fast and efficient for our plated dinner. We heard countless times how amazing the food was and how generous the portion sizes were. The bartenders were very good throughout the night as well. The outside ceremony area was so beautiful with all the flowers in bloom and even the tables on the patio had table cloths on them and looked beautiful and provided extra seating for cocktail hour. We highly highly recommend The Refuge as a wedding venue! The entire staff was phenomenal and we couldn’t have had a better day. Christa is one of the wedding and event coordinators there, she is absolutely amazing. She knows weddings well and was so helpful in areas we had no idea about when it came to planning. She truly loves her job and it is obvious in her work. Thank you for an amazing day. Reviewed on 23-09-2022
Ashley Cokley(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-08-2022 The second we walked into the refuge for a tour, we knew that was where we wanted to get married. The outdoor ceremony space was gorgeous in the winter when we toured and even better on our wedding day in August. Lisa did an amazing job coordinating everything and keeping us all on track. Little bumps throughout the day she was handling. Including when my 3 year old daughter (and flower girl) had a melt down shortly before the ceremony. Lisa asked what she could do to help and ran to get her a plate of snacks which helped immensely! She made my 3 year old and 6 year old feel at ease which I believe helped them walk down the aisle confidently with all smiles and even a twirl from my 3 year old. The weeks leading up to the wedding, Lisa promptly responded to my very many emails I was sending her. She was a godsend for making the day run smoothly and calming my nerves. It also rained right as the ceremony was supposed to start, so we were running a little behind. The rain stopped after about 15 minutes and a bunch of staff rushed out to dry all the chairs off for my guests.Our reception space was beautiful, the bartender did an amazing job, and we got SO many compliments on the food! It was an amazing night! Reviewed on 29-08-2022
Madeleine Levan(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 07-07-2022 We loved the venue, the space, the food and the people who worked with us! Made our day so perfect! Reviewed on 14-07-2022
Jeanie Katovich(other)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 20-11-2021 I can't thank Christa and the staff at the Refuge enough for their flexibility with scheduling this wedding reception. The original wedding/reception was to take place in early April of 2020. As for so many others, the event was cancelled because of Covid-19, and rescheduled three more times. Finally, we hosted the reception this November. Each time we rescheduled, the Refuge staff was very flexible and accommodating. Christa was very professional and prompt in her email responses. The event staff organized a wonderful reception. The venue site is beautiful. The food was delicious and portions were generous. A great time was had by all. Thanks again! Reviewed on 02-12-2021
Brenna Croal(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-11-2021 Absolutely beautiful location indoors and out! Christa and Josh were easy to work with and managed everything on the day of without a hitch! They helped us with where to be and when to be there, made sure everything stayed on track and we’re very flexible when we had last minute changes/ideas. I loved having the bridal suite on site for getting into our dresses. They do keep the golf course open, but honestly, we hardly even noticed! Don’t let this put you off! And the food was TO DIE FOR. So incredible, huge portions, and delicious!! Reviewed on 17-11-2021
Allison Scalzo(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 10-07-2021 The Refuge was an amazing venue for our wedding. We had to postpone from 2020 to 2021 and they were so accommodating and helpful! I would not have wanted to have our special day anywhere else! Reviewed on 11-10-2021
Devin Kiley(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 17-07-2021 Wonderful and responsive staff that made the wedding planning a breeze! I’d recommend d this place 100 time over! Reviewed on 09-10-2021
Brittany Evans-Hodgson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-08-2021 We were beyond pleased with our reception experience at The Refuge! The venue/space is stunning, we received a lot of compliments on the food, and the team was super great to work with! Wish we could relive the night! 5/5, would recommend! Thanks, Christa & team! Reviewed on 31-08-2021
Marci G(other)5 out of 5 Rating
This is the second wedding in our family held at The Refuge and we are so thrilled with how beautiful and smooth the day was! From the beginning, Christa was kind and helpful and answered all of our questions with a smile. Planning a wedding during a pandemic is not familiar to anyone but Christa and the staff were always there with a common-sense answer to our questions. Everyone wore masks and they helped us create an outdoor ceremony and outdoor/indoor reception that was safe and socially distanced. The food was delicious, so many of our guests commented on it, and it was served hot and quickly. We had the rib-eye and almond chicken, so good! Thanks again Christa and your amazing staff! Reviewed on 12-11-2020
Brittney Dorn(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-07-2020 We loved The Refuge and working with Christa for our wedding in July! She was always able to answer all of our (many) questions and was especially helpful though the pandemic. The food was great and the employees were so friendly and welcoming to us and our guests. The venue is absolutely beautiful and we were so happy to be able to have our ceremony outdoors. We would highly recommend other couples to have their wedding here! Reviewed on 13-10-2020
Andrea Diebel(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 08-12-2018 I would give 10 stars to The Refuge and specifically, Christa, if I could. The venue is breathtaking with many rustic elements and Christa is a planning pro. Like others, our guests raved about the food. We opted for the walleye and stuffed chicken plated meals. The portions were large and the food was hot. We served assorted cheesecakes that were provided by one of the venue's vendors and they were perfect. The bridal suite is also a charming, comfortable space with lighted mirrors for the beauty team. Finally, this venue is super affordable and we received a discount for getting married in the off-season. I could not be happier that we chose The Refuge as our wedding venue! Reviewed on 24-04-2020
Kati Cain(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 30-11-2019 The Refuge Golf Club is amazing! Christa and the rest of the staff are so good at what they do! They are organized, proactive, and easily accessible. They took so much stress out of the whole planning process and our big day. Our guests loved the vaulted ceilings, exposed beams, and the large bar area and dance floor. We received so many compliments on the beauty of the space and the food. Additionally, they have a list of preferred vendors that are wonderful, and know the space so well (Custom Floral Design, Agape Moments Photography). This was a very welcomed added bonus that made our whole wedding process so much easier!We would recommend The Refuge Golf Club to anyone wanting to get married in the metro area! Reviewed on 06-12-2019
Hope Nelson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 23-11-2019 Our wedding at The Refuge was absolutely perfect. Christa was so on top of everything and made sure everything went smoothly. I would highly recommend having your wedding here! Reviewed on 26-11-2019
Krysten Spohn(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 25-10-2019 Words cannot describe how much we loved The Refuge! Everything went perfect on our wedding day. From the moment we toured the venue, we knew we wanted our special day there. Christa was the absolute best to work with. She was very responsive and helpful through the whole process. We got many compliments on how good the food was and how beautiful our venue was. I would highly recommend The Refuge to anyone. Thank you so much for making our wedding truly the best day! Reviewed on 07-11-2019
Andrea Nellen(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-06-2019 Everything about working with the Refuge for our wedding was fantastic. I'll start by saying that their food is GREAT! Everyone commented on how good it was and we agree. Christa is so easy to work with, always available to answer questions, and checks in with you throughout the planning process to keep everything on track. I am a PLANNER and had all necessary duties delegated to friends and family for our wedding. And then when the day came, without question or even asking them Christa and the staff and Refuge stepped in and helped so much with little tasks like lighting candles on tables and setting out desserts while our ceremony was going on. Our day was perfect and I think that definitely reflects on the expertise that the Refuge has in weddings. And on top of all of that, the venue is so beautiful inside and out. Reviewed on 31-10-2019
Taylor Westman(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-10-2019 My daughter got married last Friday at the Refuge Golf Club. What a beautiful venue. Even though it was October 18th we were blessed with a 60 degree day! From the moment my daughter and son-in-law chose the place a year ago, through the actual wedding day everything the staff did was special. They were always attentive to our needs, and willing to help us with anything we needed. Christa was our coordinator and she made the wedding day go so smoothly. She lined everyone up before the processional, cued them when to go, and made sure my daughter's dress was flowing as she walked down the aisle. It was so beautiful having an outdoor wedding and it felt very personal and very family/friend oriented. The high wood beams gave it a country like atmosphere, which we were looking for. The food was superb and we had many compliments on how good it was. We would all highly recommend this venue!!! We could not have dreamed of a better venue than the Refuge. Reviewed on 24-10-2019
Alyssa Nordberg(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-09-2019 A beautiful place to get married and quite affordable! The venue offers everything onsite and takes care of nearly all the details. Great food options, we chose to do a brunch rather than dinner and the food was fantastic. The wedding and event coordinator was very helpful and kind. They offer the ceremony and reception space so no need to travel to a reception venue. I would recommend this venue to anyone planning their wedding! Reviewed on 21-10-2019
Samantha Groves(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 14-09-2019 The Refuge, in short, was amazing. We had a lot of questions and changes to our plans leading up to our wedding day and they were always ready to help. They were always transparent with pricing and venue policies right away so there were no surprises for us. The day of, they went above and beyond with the food, service, and flexibility. I would (and have) recommended this venue to everyone who is looking for a wedding/event venue. It is not only a gorgeous space, but the staff is fantastic. Highly Recommend! Reviewed on 10-10-2019
Laine Holcomb(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-05-2019 Simply the best-cannot say enough good things about the venue/food/cost/knowledge of the staff/everything!!!! Reviewed on 08-10-2019
Brita Svoboda(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 10-08-2019 My husband and I cannot say enough about our experience at The Refuge. We were originally drawn to the venue because of the beautiful indoor and outdoor spaces. We loved the rustic look and secluded feel without actually being too far from hotels and vendors in the cities. What really sealed the deal for us though was the staff. Prior to finding The Refuge, we visited so many venues that made us feel like just another number or dollar amount. Christa and her staff were so genuine, caring, and relaxed. I can't tell you how hard that is to find! The food was also absolutely amazing. Our guests are still talking about it! Reviewed on 04-10-2019
Sarah Nordvall(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 21-09-2019 One of my favorite things about my wedding was the Refuge Golf Club venue. They have a beautiful back drop, super easy to work with and their food is amazing. Highly recommended! Reviewed on 03-10-2019
Megan Bodeker(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-07-2019 The absolute best staff and such a beautiful venue! We could not have asked for a more perfect day at The Refuge! Reviewed on 03-10-2019
Katie Fadden(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 30-08-2019 We found The Refuge on the TheKnot and loved the pictures we saw, so we scheduled a tour of it. When we visited, we instantly loved the exposed wood beams and fireplace inside and the beautiful pavilion and garden outside. Christa, the event coordinator, made our wedding planning as stress-free as possible! She was so easy to work with, timely with her responses and made sure we knew what to expect the day of the wedding. She even gave us recommendations on other vendors. We used the DJ she suggested (PM Enterprises) and were very satisfied with his work. The food is catered through The Refuge and it was absolutely wonderful! Our choices were the prime rib and stuffed chicken and they tasted just like they did when we did our taste testing. The portions were large and our guests still talk about how good it was. We 100% recommend The Refuge! Reviewed on 16-09-2019
Rebecca Sheils(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 23-08-2019 I have nothing negative to say about this place! The workers were so nice and great to work with! They helped us with decision and gave us great recommendations based off things they have seen! The outside ceremony sight, was nothing less than perfect! Along with the natural beauty of the trees, they have a beautiful display of flowers surrounding the sight! The reception hall is naturally beautiful, plus the food was WARM and DELICIOUS! we received so many compliments about how it was the best wedding food people have had! HIGHLY RECOMMEND!! Reviewed on 30-08-2019
Laura Hansen(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-05-2019 We loved having our ceremony and reception at The Refuge! Christa and her staff were great to work with, from the initial inquiry through the planning process, and the day of. Our guests had a great time and told us many times how beautiful the venue was and how good the food was. We are really happy with the whole experience. Reviewed on 24-06-2019
Ashley Robinson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 02-03-2019 The Refuge is absolutely beautiful! The wedding coordinator was extremely helpful throughout the entire process. Our big day went very smooth with no hiccups. The food was amazing! Reviewed on 06-06-2019
Crystal Axelson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 29-03-2019 They we absolutely amazing throughout the whole process. My husband and I were a little but confused on the whole planning thing, but Christa was super helpful. She made us feel calm and was very transparent about every cost and step. I also loved that she kept in contact often before the wedding day. She helped run the rehearsal, which went smoothly. We didn't have one hitch on the wedding day either. It was beautiful! Food was also done through the kitchen on site and it was delicious. We got a lot of compliments on the food. This is a beautiful venue with amazing staff! Reviewed on 13-04-2019
Allisa Newman(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 29-12-2018 I would 100% recommend The Refuge for your wedding venue. They are extremely affordable and the venue is stunning. We got married on 12/29/18 and received discounts for getting married off season. We paid for our wedding ourselves and had a strict budget and The Refuge worked with us to create a pizza/pasta/salad buffet for our guests and it was a hit! Our 11th table to get food stated their plates were filled with hot food. We got so many compliments on the food and man, was it affordable. Christa is their wedding coordinator and so helpful. She answered all questions promptly and was just so great throughout the planning process and day of. The venue staff is amazing and I just can't give them enough praise. We were able to clean up the next day as well, since there were no events that Sunday. Keep in mind, we got married in the winter so this will likely not be possible for someone getting married peak season. Reviewed on 23-01-2019
Jackie Hass(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 14-07-2018 The Refuge Golf Club made it so flawlessly easy to enjoy our wedding day! The original meeting was so well put together, they had a packet ready, got me a quote in very little time, and always answered my emails back within a day or two. Krista was basically my wedding planner! She helped us pick the food and drinks we wanted, decide the timing for the days festivities, and thought to ask things I didn't even think of! She made our wedding day so easy! She was there from start to near finish to answer any questions, direct guests, and meet the DJ and cake decorator. Overall, I couldn't imagine the day going any better and I know having our wedding at The Refuge made a big difference. Oh, and the price was right! Reviewed on 23-10-2018
Amanda Hogan(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 21-04-2018 We had a great experience at The Refuge! The venue is beautiful & food was EXCELLENT. Also, the serving size of food will leave your guests nice & full. The staff was easy to work with which took a lot of the wedding planning stress away. Staff was very professional & easy to communicate with via email or phone. All emails were answered in a very prompt fashion! We found that the overall price was very reasonable/on the lower end when compared to other venues we looked at in the cities. There were no hidden costs. We are super happy we chose The Refuge. I would highly recommend to anyone. Reviewed on 18-10-2018
Chelsey Prall(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-08-2018 My coordinator was great and always available to ask questions. The food was delicious and the venue was absolutely beautiful! I got a ton of compliments on how nice the venue was, both indoor and out. I highly recommend this place! It’s a gorgeous venue at a really great price. Reviewed on 18-10-2018
Holly Drews(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-06-2018 The Refuge was the perfect fit for us! The venue is beautiful - inside and out. We could not have been more pleased with the indoor and outdoor space, the accommodations, service, food, etc. We received a ton of positive feedback from guests who complimented the beautiful venue and wonderful food. Christa and her staff provide service second to none. You will not be disappointed if you choose to host your wedding here. Reviewed on 17-10-2018
Sydney Cichoski(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 31-08-2018 We had our perfect wedding and reception at The Refuge, every aspect of our day here was wonderful! The staff is amazing at helping out and directing people where to go. The food is incredible we are still getting compliments from our guest, and not to mention the beauty of this place! We hardly had to decorate and still got so many compliments on how gorgeous it was! Overall this place is amazing and I would recommend anyone looking for a rustic outdoor wedding to check this place out! Reviewed on 17-10-2018
Amber Ramsey(bride)5 out of 5 Rating
I do not have enough words to describe what a wonderful experience we had with this location. The staff were all so helpful with every little detail of the wedding. They were always quick to respond to an email or question we had, they were extremely organized and detailed with the layout and timeline for the day before and day of the wedding. The food is OUTSTANDING and they were so flexible with our wants and needs as far as decorations and number of guests and layout of the room. I would recommend this location to anyone looking for a ceremony and reception hall. Reviewed on 14-10-2018
Alicia Baillargeon(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 14-09-2018 We have nothing but positive things to say about the refuge! We hosted both our rehearsal dinner and wedding reception here and were nothing but impressed. The refuge is a well-oiled machine when it comes to wedding events. The food was wonderful and we were hearing compliments all night, our choices were the sirloin steak, chicken parm & spinach pasta. Christa is the on-site wedding coordinator and she makes the planning process as easy as it can be, she is on top of her game and we were very grateful for her assistance through the entire process. In addition, she let us know of some preferred vendors in the area which includes a house to rent right on the gold course - this was a huge bonus for my husbands family and made their participation in events that much smoother! There is also a bridal suite in the basement of the refuge that made it easy for my bridal party to hang out in all morning as we were getting ready for the day! If you are looking for a beautiful, secluded venue in the north metro - book with refuge, they are wonderful! Reviewed on 01-10-2018
Liz Paulson(parent)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 15-09-2018 As the mother of the bride, I could not have picked a better place for our daughters wedding. Everyone was so helpful that worked there! The food was delicious, and the portions were not skimpy. The only negative thing I can think of was that we paid for 3 different types of infused water and although the water looked beautiful, it really had no flavor. It was a very hot day, and the water was cold so that was nice. No question went un-answered by the staff. It was a very nice day for our families, and the ease of the venue really helped. I would highly recommend The Refuge. Reviewed on 27-09-2018
Britney Ellspermann(bride)5 out of 5 Rating
The Refuge was the perfect place to get married and it truest had everything. It was breathtaking. Christa took care of us through the planning, the rehearsal, the ceremony and the reception and obviously knew her job inside and out. We lucked out with great weather but it made me feel better knowing we had a back up plan. The food was delicious (yes, I had a chance to eat my food. :) We got compliments from guests left and right on the whole thing. Thanks for the wedding we will never forget! Reviewed on 21-09-2018
Tenia Sonnek(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 19-05-2018 We found The Refuge on The Knot Wedding Planner App. We scheduled a showing and instantly fell in love! It was the only place we had actually gone and looked at but we knew immediately that it was perfect for us! The venue itself is gorgeous and didn't need a ton of decorations because it already looked great on it's own! We loved the rustic feel and the exposed beams in the reception area. Christa, the wedding and event coordinator, was fantastic to work with! She helped us every step of the way, was prompt with responding to emails and she made the day go by with ease. The food was so delicious!! Our guests raved about how it was the best wedding food they had ever had! Our guests could not stop talking about how awesome the venue was and how perfect it was for us. We couldn't have asked for a better place to celebrate our wedding, we loved everything about it! Highly recommend The Refuge! Reviewed on 19-06-2018
Jacquel Nissen(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-05-2018 When we looked at the Refuge and immediately knew it would be an amazing venue for our ceremony and reception. It was truly the best day of our lives, and the Refuge made that all possible. Christa and all of the staff were phenomenal, and made the day seem like a breeze. The venue was absolutely stunning, food was fantastic, and all of the details were handled efficiently. We had so many people say it was the best wedding they've been too! Highly recommend! Reviewed on 01-06-2018
Tasha Wiehle(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 24-03-2018 We had our ceremony and reception at The Refuge Golf Club. Everything from start to finish was done with ease. Christa is very good at her job and was very helpful along the way with coordinating and answering our questions. The place is beautiful alone and we had minimal decor. We also used their photo booth, and everyone seemed to love it. We had about 170 guests in attendance with a plated dinner. Everyone boasted about how delicious the food was, and we did a dessert buffet in which they prepared as well. I would recommend this to any couple looking for best quality for the value! Reviewed on 14-04-2018
Cassie Miller(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-12-2017 Our reception at the Refuge Golf Club was gorgeous! I loved this venue because it did not require too much decor. It is already embodies rustic elegance (especially if you choose to use the draping and lights like we did). Christa, the wedding coordinator was wonderful to work with. She was absolutely kind, professional, prompt in her responses, and made sure we were aware of how the day would go and what we could expect. We also had so many compliments on the food! We offered our guests the top sirloin steak, almond chicken, and the alfredo for a vegetarian option. We were so happy with our decision to host our reception here. Highly recommend! Reviewed on 02-01-2018
Adrianne Haider(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 28-10-2017 I had my wedding and reception at The Refuge on 10/28/2017. We got SO many compliments on the venue, decorations, staff friendliness, timing, and the FOOD! Christa was so easy to work with and made sure everything ran smoothly. We even had to work around the first snowfall of the year and they didn't even bat an eye. The food was absolutely amazing- Even better than it was at the tasting. Steak was cooked perfectly (for all 175 guests) and salmon couldn't have been better. The staff was so willing to help and made the night even better. So thankful for our choice at The Refuge- what an beautiful facility! Reviewed on 28-11-2017
Stephanie Sawicki(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 29-07-2017 The staff at the Refuge went above and beyond to make our day perfect. The day could not have gone any smoother! Reviewed on 09-10-2017
Lindsey Kyllonen(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 09-09-2017 We got married 9/9/17 at The Refuge and it was amazing. The wedding coordinator [Christa] was so helpful and was always keeping us updated with additional info or changes. The food was amazing. Prices are reasonable. The staff at The Refuge was awesome helping us take down decor at the end of the night. We had a situation where a golfer was very rude to me amd tried to start a fight and they handled it immediately with no issues. Highly recommend! -Lindsey S. Reviewed on 25-09-2017
Callie Martin(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 25-08-2017 I had my ceremony in reception at The Refuge on 8.25.17! It is such a beautiful venue both inside the reception area and the outdoor ceremony area. We loved working with Christa! She was always prompt with answering all my questions and was so great to work with! The food was amazing and she even worked with us on doing a custom dessert station and late night snack! We loved the walking tacos! I would recommend The Refuge to anyone looking for a natural and beautiful setting. Thanks again Christa! Reviewed on 18-09-2017
Esther Fideldy(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 14-04-2017 This Venue is Wonderful! I was given a packet of info and menus right away before I had the appointment to tour the venue. The coordinator was very helpful when it came to questions and with helping at the rehearsal and the big day! Food was Amazing! Had many guests comment on how good the food was! - Esther and Andrew Reviewed on 15-04-2017
Elaine Walin(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 09-12-2016 Such a beautiful venue. They were fabulous! they worked with us to make sure everything was as we wanted it, they even helped us plan an appetizer reception that would be successful since we couldn't afford to do a full dinner. they were flexible and did everything they could to help us make the day extra special. It's worth the drive away from the city! Reviewed on 04-01-2017
Andria Melin(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 17-09-2016 I got married Sept 17, 2016 at The Refuge Golf Club. I cannot say enough amazing things about Jami, Joe, and the rest of the Refuge team. They were so accommodating to all of our requests. We had 220 guests. Everyone was so amazed at the beautiful room they have, and the amazing grounds. We were also blessed with a great looking day. Their pricing was competitive with other sites around the area, but for the beauty, I feel like it is priceless. I would recommend anyone looking to get married, in a beautiful golf course, The Refuge is the course for you! Reviewed on 08-10-2016
Cheyenne Randolph(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 26-08-2016 Such a BEAUTIFUL venue!! We fell in love the minute we saw The Refuge and knew it was perfect for our wedding ceremony and reception. We also had the rehearsal/dinner there, too. Food was very good for both the rehearsal dinner and the reception dinner. We decided to have plated meals - NY strip and stuffed chicken. We upgraded to the summer salad and everyone just loved it. Everything went very smoothly throughout the whole day and night. I highly recommend this venue. Just be cognizant of the food and beverage minimums. We had about 110 guests so we had our wedding on Friday instead because we wouldn't have been able to meet Saturday's minimum (difference of $3000). Reviewed on 20-09-2016
Nancy Leegard(wedding party)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 05-11-2017 The Refuge Golf Club was amazing. All our guests commented on the beautiful setting, delicious food, and friendly staff. I thought it more than met my expectations (which were high). Reviewed on 05-09-2016
Amy Anderson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 21-05-2016 I held my wedding at The Refuge on May 21st and it was a spectacular evening! The food, drinks, and atmosphere were perfect! We received many compliments on how well everything was ran and how beautiful the ceremony and reception were. The reception site is a lodge type interior with exposed wood beams and a gorgeous fireplace, which was the focal point of our dance. The wedding coordinator on site, Jami, was amazing at her job. She is very responsive and was very accommodating to our requests throughout the wedding planning process. We can't thank her enough for all of her help to make our special day so memorable! Reviewed on 31-05-2016
Sherri Betow(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 12-03-2016 My wedding ceremony and reception was held at The Refuge on March 12,2016. From start to finish the whole process of planning was so easy with them! Jami the wedding coordinator was amazing, very quick to answer questions and very accommodating. Every one of the staff members I dealt with were great as well. The venue is gorgeous, if you have an indoor or outdoor wedding you will not be disappointed. The reception space inside is so pretty with all the beams and the pretty fireplace! I'm so glad I chose The Refuge, and would highly recommend to anyone looking . Reviewed on 06-04-2016
Shannon Drinken(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 30-08-2014 We had so many compliments on how beautiful the venue was and how fitting it was for us. \rWe loved working with Jess at The Refuge! She was so open to all our ideas and different things we wanted to do. Other venues we had checked out always had a whole list of you can't do this, or this, or this, or they would restrict you on your options for food and drinks. Whatever we asked for Jess made it work. The staff the evening of was great. Cleaned up all our decorations towards the end of the evening and boxed it all up. Anything we asked for they were right on top of it. We couldn't have asked for a better experience. Reviewed on 24-09-2014
Jessica Walby(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-01-2014 Jess was super helpful with the planning process. I didn't have a wedding planner just doing it with my mom and Jess was always able to help us out when we needed her. They were accommodating to my wants and desires for our wedding vision. Everyone at our wedding raved about the food which tasted amazing. Food was just as excellent as it was as tasting. They have a great photo booth. The downside that I heard was they cleared off people's full cupsof fresh beverages and desserts and threw them away when they were on the dance floor Reviewed on 02-02-2014
Cindy Jurek(bride)4 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-08-2013 Lovely location for both ceremony and reception. The new outdoor pavilion was beautiful and more elegant than having only a trellis on grass which is all most outdoor venues offer. The upscale lodge reception area was so very nice, too. Food and service - excellent. Staff: most helpful.\rVery disappointed: we were assured that motorized golf carts would be prohibited from driving through our wedding site. They were NOT! Two gawking golfers came whizzing by right when our minister was giving his message. I can't tell you how shocked and disappointed I was.\rThe Refuge could easily have kept golfers away from our site for the 1/2 hour duration of our ceremony. For the price we paid to use their facility compared to what the golfers paid, I think this is a reasonable expectation. There was no apology; the wedding planner, instead, denied giving us that promised of limited access. \rWe a few hundred dollars extra for at least 12 people who did not show up or stay for our reception. There is no refund nor were we allowed to take food home. My recommendation to brides: UNDERestimate how many guests will actually be at your dinner. I've never heard of venues running out of food. They can bill you for the extras - IF necessary - afterwards. Reviewed on 28-08-2013
Kasey Smith(bride)4 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 04-05-2013 The Refuge was great!! They were very helpful. The only downside was they picked up VERY quickly, most of my guests were a little worried to set their plates or glasses down because by the time they came back- someone had thrown away their stuff. Reviewed on 19-06-2013
Ashley Ziegler(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 28-07-2012 Jame is the absolute best!!! Their food was amazing, the service was amazing. & it was BEAUTIFUL!!!! Reviewed on 18-08-2012
Kayla G(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-07-2012 Our experience with the Refuge has been nothing but great! Jami was our contact person and she would continually keep us updated and on track. The venue was amazing and was the perfect fit for us with the really tall ceilings and exposed beams, plus all the beautiful scenary!\rThe food was wonderful and generous portions as well! They were really great to work with and I would highly recommend the Refuge! :) Reviewed on 15-08-2012
Amber Meyers(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 19-05-2012 Everyone and everything was amazing!! Reviewed on 09-07-2012
chelsea Hoff(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 02-06-2012 The staff was awesome !! so helpfull and willing to do whatever we wanted Reviewed on 28-06-2012
Deserai Gerlach(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 26-05-2012 Jami at The Refuge is wonderful to work with as the event coordinator. She was always helpful and readily available. The site is grogeous and the food was delicoius! We received many compliments from our guests. Reviewed on 11-06-2012
Cortney Hamment(bride)3 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 21-10-2011 A lot of people raved about the site, and how beautiful it was. It was expensive, and they aren't too flexible on things. But it was memorable. Reviewed on 08-11-2011
Stephanie Faymoville(bride)3 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 24-09-2011 I just got married on September 24, 2011 at the Refuge. The venue is very beautiful and all of the guest loved it as well. The planning process went great with the staff at the Refuge. The day of the wedding there was some things that we were told would have been done but were not done. Overall, we had a great day! Reviewed on 10-10-2011
Emily Beckering(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 29-07-2011 Our Wedding Reception was absolutely beautiful because of the natural beauty of the Ball Room at the Refuge and due to the hard work of all the staff. We worked with Jami Price, the event coordinator on site. She was professional, prompt, and organized. She has years of experience at the Refuge, and as a result, she was able to forsee all the details that we needed to arrange prior to the event. She responded to my calls, emails, and questions within one day, if not a few hours! She managed the staff to make sure that everything from set-up to tear-down went smoothly. She was a calming and reassuring presence the day of the reception. All of the staff worked diligently throughout the night. The food and beverage manager, Joe, was also very professional and experienced. The Refuge also has partnerships with well-known vendors such as Buttercream cakes. The oak ceiling is so beautiful, you don't even need drapery! With a beautiful venue, delicious food, and staff that make everything seem effortless, it is sure to be a beautiful pleasurable experience! Reviewed on 15-08-2011
Marissa Martinson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 05-03-2011 This venue is very impressive! Beauty is only one of its qualities. The food was amazing and everything was served quickly and orderly. Food was hot and fresh! The coordinator was wonderful and made sure everything was moving along. Price was great also! I got a reception that looked like it cost me a fortune when it really was only $5,500 for 148 people, appitizers, keg, coffee, and wine! Reviewed on 06-03-2011
Briena Hawkins(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-09-2010 We loved the Refuge. Great service and beautiful for an outdoor wedding!! Reviewed on 05-10-2010
Alyssa Anderson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 26-06-2010 Huge outdoor patio, immaculate gardens, large bar, great food. Reviewed on 07-09-2010
Erica Doppenberg(bride)4 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 02-07-2010 Great location for both ceremony and location. Beautiful scenery, GREAT FOOD (we are still getting compliments months after) and great service. Only warning: will tell you reception hall seats up to 300 inside but we found with 280 guests it was VERY cramped. I would say it fits comfortably up to 260 guests. Reviewed on 09-08-2010
Carrie Piatz(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 28-09-2008 Natural setting. Beauty of the reception area;Don't do the rehersal on the day of your wedding. The planner was over hour late! Reviewed on 10-05-2010