Whitby Castle is a timeless wedding venue based in Westchester County in Rye, NY. This turn-of-the-century castle sits magnificently on 126 acres and boasts a striking resemblance to the original Whitby Abbey monastery in England. Thanks to its sensational views of Long Island Sound, perfectly manicured lawns, and golf course, the venue is the perfect backdrop for your wedding day photos.
Built in 1852, the castle exhibits gothic and renaissance architectural design fused with a bright and contemporary indoor decor. The venue can hold up to 250 guests and have several options to choose from depending on the size of your party. Outside the castle, you may wed beneath the archway and continue your celebrations on the outdoor patio facing Milton Harbour. Inside, the venue holds a grand ballroom for receptions that is suitable for large groups. For more intimate gatherings, you can choose between two private reception rooms.
The team at Whitby Castle goes above and beyond to ensure that you and your guests are celebrated. They will be by your side every step of the way, making sure that everything runs seamlessly. The venue has a list of preferred vendors that you may choose from that can also simplify the decision-making process. There is an on-site restaurant available that offers catering options and full bar services. Further services available to you include event rentals like glassware, flatware, and linens, as well as valet and parking. When it comes to cuisine, you are in for a treat as there are multiple options available. Some of these include a champagne and bellini greeting, a cocktail hour, hors d’oeuvres, and a reception table with an exotic fruit, cheese, and fresh vegetable display. Some sample entrées also include free-range chicken breast, miso-glazed mahi-mahi, and New York strip steak with bordelaise sauce.
Civil Union, Commitment Ceremony, Elopement, Interfaith Ceremony, Non-Religious Ceremony, Religious Ceremony, Second Wedding, Vow Renewal Ceremony
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks, Food & Catering, Planning, Service Staff
Settings
Ballroom, Beach, Waterfront, Castle, Country Club, Estate, Historic Venue
Business Attributes
Pricing for Whitby Castle at Rye Golf Club
Option
Value
Starting Cost
Affordable
Cost Starting
Price Range
$18,000 - $22,500+
Couples Usually Spend
$20,250
Peak Season Months
Peak Season Cost
$18,000 - $22,500+
Peak Season Reception Cost
Peak Season Ceremony Cost
$1,500
Peak Season Bar Service Cost
OffSeason Months
OffSeason Cost
$18,000 - $22,500+
OffSeason Reception Cost
OffSeason Ceremony Cost
$1,200
OffSeason BarService Cost
Whitby Castle at Rye Golf Club Reviews
Rebecca Curran(other)4 out of 5 Rating
We loved our experience at Whitby Castle. We were able to host the ceremony outside on the front lawn, and the castle backdrop was stunning.Niki was incredibly helpful with our questions leading up to the day, and Ralph ensured the day ran seamlessly on the actual wedding day. We did have some misunderstandings with our contract in the weeks leading up to the wedding (e.g., we were told Whitby could procure any domestic craft beers we wanted for the reception when we signed the contract, but the reality was significantly more limited), but Niki and Ralph worked with us to make sure we were happy and that they upheld their commitment to us.It is disappointing that you aren't able to guarantee access to the venue more than 2 hours prior to your event (they typically have multiple events a day), but luckily, we were able to get early access to the castle based on availability.They have a gorgeous outdoor space for the cocktail hour overlooking the golf course - we have beautiful photos from the whole night.The food was delicious (much better than we had at the tasting!) and seemingly never ending - exactly what we were hoping for! The bridal attendant was incredibly helpful as well.While the \"getting ready\" areas (bridal suite, groomsmen room) are smaller, our large wedding party made it feel more cramped then they are in reality. The team had appetizers and drinks set up for our group before the ceremony and during cocktail hour as well - it was great to be able to sneak upstairs to grab some food in private!Overall, it was a beautiful venue to get married. The team goes above and beyond to make sure you have a wonderful day - I would definitely recommend it to anyone looking for a venue near New York City! Reviewed on 02-01-2024
Heather S.(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Whitby Castle was beyond amazing! We were looking for a venue to host our special day. It was really hard locating a space that had not only had great service, but great food. Whitby Castle made it all happen from start to finish. They made our wedding day, memorable in so many ways. Guests are still talking about the wonderful service/kind staff, food, venue and so much more. The experience was fantastic! Special thanks Niki and Ralph for their professionalism and flexibility. The chef and his team also deserve a round applause too! Reviewed on 02-01-2024
Nadia Bousada(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Whitby castle was the absolute best venue! Niki and Ralph were amazing to work with both on the day of and throughout the whole process. The actual day went so smooth, all of the staff were attentive and accommodating. My guests spoke so highly of the service on our day! The actual venue itself is stunning and all of our pictures came out incredible! I am so happy we had our wedding here, it was truly an unforgettable day! Reviewed on 09-12-2023
Chelsea Cornelius(other)5 out of 5 Rating
We are so in love with this venue and everyone who works here. We had an absolutely wonderful time on our wedding day and everything was set up so beautifully I have no complaints. The workers were very attentive and responsive and worked with us the whole way. Such a fantastic venue I highly recommend it! Reviewed on 05-12-2023
Emma Osborn(other)5 out of 5 Rating
I cannot say good enough things about working with the team at Whitby Castle. Niki and Ralph are absolute gems and my husband and I could not be happier. They were so attentive to each detail, the staff were amazing, the food was awesome, and the whole vibe was perfect for what we wanted. Literally cannot think of a single thing that was wrong or negative in any way. We had a perfect wedding. Reviewed on 22-11-2023
Kimberley Rubino(other)5 out of 5 Rating
I had my bridal shower here and it was everything that I wanted for a location for my Alice in Wonderland Bridal Shower! It was bright and open and the food was great. They were very easy to work with too. Everyone had a great time. Reviewed on 13-11-2023
Laura Murphy(other)5 out of 5 Rating
My go-to phrase whenever anyone asked me how my wedding planning was going was that I totally lucked out with Whitby Castle. From day one, Niki & Ralph made everything so easy and seamless. Our wedding day itself was dreamy and perfect. Gabriel and Rosa made us all feel at ease and accommodated us and our needs so nicely. I really just cannot recommend Whitby enough. Our guests are still raving about how beautiful everything was and how amazing the food was. Thank you to everyone at Whitby!! Reviewed on 13-11-2023
Ilene Altschul(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Whitby castle is an amazing venue for a wedding. The place inside and outside are beautiful. Nikki and Ralph are extremely helpful, organized, attentive, professional and ensure that your wedding runs smoothly. We received rave reviews about the food. Can’t think of any areas that were lacking. Overall a fantastic wedding experience for the bride and groom as well as the guests. Reviewed on 12-11-2023
Guadalupe Mora(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Easy to work with and the venue is so magical! All our guests loved everything about it. Working with Niki and Ralph was wonderful, the whole process was super easy! Reviewed on 06-11-2023
Jessica Foertsch(other)5 out of 5 Rating
The Whitby Castle was our dream wedding location. It was such a wonderful place to get married, and we would do it all over again there in a heartbeat! My husband and I fell in love with it the moment we saw it. Nicki and Ralph were so easy to work with, and everything ran smoothly throughout the planning process and during the wedding day. The Castle also provided the food and cake, which all tasted delicious. We took the most incredible pictures during our ceremony and reception; it truly is a unique and special place to get married. I would give it 6 stars if possible! Reviewed on 02-11-2023
Charles Kim(other)5 out of 5 Rating
We wish we could give Whitby Castle more than five stars.!We just had our wedding there, and it exceeded even our highest hopes and expectations. Niki and Ralph were incredibly warm, responsive, courteous, and professional, from the contract to the moment we drove off at the end of the reception.The food was exceptionally good, and it was plentiful. They also offered us a few extra food offerings (a couple special appetizers, a sundae bar with all the toppings you could ever want, donuts and apple cider that guests could take as they left, etc.) that were not at all expensive, and we got so many compliments from everyone for them. The whole event ran smoothly thanks to Ralph's work orchestrating it the whole afternoon and evening, and their server staff were also very professional and on the ball. To say we feel we got our money's worth is an understatement, and we took advantage of the long holiday weekend to have our event on a Thursday, at a discounted price and with a lower minimum of attendees. We can't list the myriad little details offered by Whitby Castle that made the whole thing easier and more affordable than expected. We were able to relax, savor the moment, and enjoy our day with all of our friends and family. We cannot recommend Whitby Castle enough. Thank you, Niki and Ralph! Reviewed on 12-10-2023
Ashley Zouzias(other)5 out of 5 Rating
We had the perfect wedding day at Whitby Castle! Niki and Ralph helped to make our day a success. The food was great and there are SO MANY options. The staff is professional and we would recommend Whitby! Reviewed on 31-08-2023
Paul Dufour(other)5 out of 5 Rating
I do not know where to begin. My wife and I had a great feeling after seeing Whitby Castle when we were touring venues and we're so glad we listening to our gut. Niki (Sales Manager) addressed our every need and question even before we made our decision. You could tell she truly just wanted us to make a decision that we felt comfortable making. And because of that (on top of the beautiful castle and grounds), we felt very comfortable moving forward with Whitby.Their prices were very competitive compared to other places we looked at in the tri-state/New England area. We also never saw a more \"bang for your buck\" type deal than with Whitby. The open bar, services stations, hor dourves, etc. were all priced in and ended up costing less than what other places offered if you were to include those same items. Niki was very responsive to our emails and calls leading up to the wedding and really felt like a teammate in gearing up for our big day. Then came the day of the wedding and we met Ralph, our maitre d'. This guy is a pro's pro. The Whitby staff is a well oiled machine and Ralph was the maestro that kept everything together. It was hectic leading up to the wedding (due to external factors with timing on our end, nothing to Whitby's fault), but Ralph kept us on track. He was calm, cool, and collected and those feelings rubbed off on us as well. We had originally planned to have our ceremony outside on the front lawn, however a last minute storm rolled in 30 minutes before showtime. Ralph had his team move our arch inside and set up the ballroom for our ceremony. It was mind blowing how quickly and beautifully they set up the ballroom for our ceremony. Then they had to move it back to fit all the tables while our guests were on the deck for cocktail hour! We were really limited on time but Ralph helped us make use of every minute we had all while keeping us at ease and allowing us to savor each moment. My wife's bridal attendant was also world-class. She did a great job bustling her dress, stealing some hor dourves for us while we were taking pictures during the cocktail hour, and made sure my wife never went thirsty. I'd also be remiss to not mention how amazing all the food was. We received multiple comments from our guests on how delicious all the appetizers, courses, and desserts were. It really felt like we were treated like royalty at the Whitby Castle. Couldn't recommend this venue and this group of people more. Thank you Whitby! Reviewed on 27-07-2023
Chelsea G(other)5 out of 5 Rating
We just got married at Whitby Castle and not only loved working with the staff (shoutout to Ralph and Niki) but it was the perfect backdrop for our fairytale wedding. Lucky enough to have a perfect May day, we got married on the lawn out front, cocktails on the back patio, and a double ballroom reception. The food and service was on point, Ralph and my wedding planner (Kelli Teglas) worked in perfect sync and the whole event went off without a hitch!Centerpieces / Arch by Arcadia FloralPhotos by Morgan Taylor Artistry Reviewed on 15-07-2023
Maria Jaime(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Niki and Ralph and the whole team was amazing to work with! The food was delicious, service was exceptional ! The bridal attendant was super helpful and made sure we were taken care of the whole night. All of our guests loved not only the views but the staff. Thank you! Reviewed on 14-07-2023
Amanda Garrison(other)5 out of 5 Rating
We had our wedding at Whitby Castle in June, and it was just beautiful. From start to finish, the whole experience was so easy. Niki helped us pick our date and was available for my endless questions through email. Ralph helped us figure out the table layout, schedule, etc., and was there as our maitre'd to make sure everything ran smoothly. Our guests raved about the beauty of the castle itself, as well as the food. The appetizers and dinner were fantastic, and the entire staff helped make the night easy for both of us. I highly recommend having your wedding here! Reviewed on 06-07-2023
Christina Zervoudakes(other)5 out of 5 Rating
My husband and I got married at Whitby Castle on May 26, 2023 and it was one of the best decisions we’ve ever made! For anyone looking for the venue of their dreams, don’t walk…. RUN to Whitby Castle, I promise you won’t be sorry! We had a short list of venues to tour, but then we found Whitby and we knew we had found the ‘perfect’ place for our wedding (it was the first and only place we visited!) Whitby offers with so many ‘perks’ and helped make the planning process extremely simple, while remaining extremely affordable – it’s truly a hidden gem!From the first email contact through the end of our reception, the staff, service, and overall event coordination and flexibility was nothing short of amazing. HUGE shout out to Niki, Ralph, and Roxy for being such superstars – wedding planning and our special day would not have been the same without you! Niki was extremely responsive, friendly, and patient in answering all our questions and so accommodating as we sorted out various details leading up to the event. Ralph was our maitre d’/main point of contact and was amazing. He helped coordinate final details, managed the timeline of events and was so accommodating with last minute changes. Finally, I don’t know what I would’ve done without my bridal attendant, Roxy. She went above and beyond to help keep me stress-free and was always available to assist with anything we needed throughout the evening. All our guests had a fantastic time and we’ve received so many compliments on everything from the venue to the food. Again, thank you so much to the team at Whitby for making our dream wedding come true and a day we’ll never forget! Reviewed on 30-06-2023
Janet D(other)5 out of 5 Rating
My daughter’s Bridal Shower at The Whitby Castle can be described as….PERFECT!The service, atmosphere, attention to detail and the food was extraordinary! Reviewed on 14-06-2023
Andrea V(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Everyone here is nothing short of amazing! There is no other place my husband and I would have seen ourselves getting married except here, it really was a dream come true. Yasmin was the real MVP that day as she was amazing at getting everything moving, helping my family set some things up, and just taking care of us all throughout the day. She really made sure everything ran smoothly and even gave us champagne after the ceremony. The food is TO DIE FOR, everything is delicious and everyone that came is STILL raving about the food! It's a beautiful space that's extremely versatile for your vision. Give them a call, tour the space, you will not be disappointed!!! Reviewed on 07-05-2023
Caitlin McNally(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 25-03-2023 Niki, Ralph, and all the staff were absolutely incredible. From the planning stages to the actual wedding day, everyone made things incredibly easy and seamless. Niki and Ralph made sure all of our needs/questions/concerns were thoroughly addressed prior to the day so that on our wedding day we just had to show up and enjoy everything! I got ready at Whitby that morning and I would highly recommend - we easily got in and we had plenty of space for all of our dresses / hair and makeup / and relaxing. Not to mention the beautiful room and lighting as a backdrop for our getting ready photos! Then after we returned from our wedding ceremony (at an offsite church) everything I had dropped off earlier in the week was perfectly set up so all we had to do was enjoy some drinks / snacks and get to taking our pictures. We even got to enjoy a little of cocktail hour! All of our guests were incredibly impressed with all aspects of the venue from start to finish. The castle itself was great and guests loved the different rooms and patio (which was warm and enjoyed by many guests despite being 30 degrees and raining outside). The food was amazing - guests loved the comfort food station, so many passed hors d’oeuvres, beautiful salads and dinner, and delicious Italian cookies and cake. The staff was so attentive and professional. All we can say is 1000/10 experience - I am so glad we booked Whitby Castle for our wedding!! Best day ever! Reviewed on 04-04-2023
ashley eversman(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 31-03-2023 My wedding here was absolutely gorgeous. More amazing than I ever could have imagined. Every person was so kind, helpful, and professional. I would recommend this venue to my friends and family without any hesitation. The entire day went so smoothly, and every single detail was so perfect. Ralph, Nikki, Fernando, Leo, Roxy, Alana, the list goes on. Everyone was so incredibly helpful and I’m so grateful they were apart of my special night. ! Reviewed on 03-04-2023
Andreina Roel(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 12-03-2023 We got married at Whitby Castle on 03/12/23. Our wedding was a dream! We and our guests all had the most amazing time! All of our guests raved about the food, during the cocktail and reception. Ralph our Maitre’d was Awesome and made sure everything went smoothly, as did our bridal attendant Rosa. Our bartender Alana was amazing, as was the chef whom we were lucky to meet! The venue is just beautiful, and we loved that we had the whole place to ourselves as there is only one event taking place at a time; it really makes it feel more intimate and special. Our interaction with all the staff (Niki) throughout the planning process was wonderful. In summary my husband and I couldn’t have asked for a better place to have our wedding, and we are so glad it was the most memorable night for us and our guests. Thank you to all the staff at Whitby for helping make it such a special night! Reviewed on 25-03-2023
Christine Prezioso(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-10-2022 We can't recommend Whitby castle enough! Nikki and Ralph were nothing but amazing throughout the entire process of wedding planning, and helped us every step of the way. During our wedding, Ralph made sure everything went smoothly, and kept in touch with us every single step of the way. Our bridal attendant was phenomenal as well, and so helpful! Our wedding was in October, and our guests are still raving about the food and how good it was. We couldn't recommend Whitby Castle enough, it was the absolute perfect place for our wedding reception. Reviewed on 22-02-2023
Sophie Neumann(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 30-12-2022 The main reason we chose Whitby Castle as our venue, besides the fact that it is beautiful and was exactly what I wanted, is because of the top notch service. From the start Niki was responsive and informative answering every question quickly and with all the details. She was so accommodating and such a pleasure to work with. We worked with Ralph for the day of and he was also incredibly professional and on top of every detail. All of the staff was great and our guests were so impressed with their service. Whitby Castle was the perfect venue. Reviewed on 26-01-2023
Deirdre McGrath(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 10-12-2022 My husband and I looked at several wedding venues in Westchester before visiting Whitby but once we toured the venue and met with Niki to discuss details we both knew that this is the place we wanted to have our reception. The beauty of the venue is apparent on the outside and inside but what really sets Whitby apart is the emphasis that the entire team places on making the couple feel taken care of leading up to and on the day of the wedding. Having Whitby as a venue was like having several other coordinators who were more than happy to answer all of our questions and make sure that everything we needed to pull off the Wedding was already in place before we arrived. The maître d' Ralph is one of the most incredible people we worked with throughout the wedding process and we felt so at ease on the day. We understand the stress couples are under leading up to a wedding but having Whitby as our venue and the team by our side made the day so easy and memorable. Even with a wedding planner don't underestimate the benefit of having a great team at your venue. This is not to mention the incredible service of the wait staff and bar tenders who served the best wedding food we have ever had. We had so many people complement us on the quality of the food stations during the cocktail hour and the great meal that was served after. They even provided hot cider and donuts as guests left. We hope to come back to Whitby soon to celebrate more special events! Reviewed on 24-01-2023
Tracy Mecca(other)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 13-01-2023 My daughter wanted her sweet 16 at the Whitby after a dear friend had her bridal shower and we had Easter brunch. It was her first and only choice. We worked with Yasmin. She was very helpful, understanding, and had great attention to detail. She answered numerous questions, emails, and gave us her professional opinions. Everyone at the The Whitby went above and beyond! The room we had was beautiful. The set up was gorgeous, stunning!! My guests raved about how stunning driving up to and walking into the cattle was ! The food!!! The food was amazing! Absolutely delicious!!! From the cocktail hour to the dinner! The set up was beautiful! Our guests kept talking about the food! Not only was the cake delicious it was stunning! My daughter had a picture of a cake and they replicated it perfectly!!!!! My daughter was so thankful. She said her night was perfect!! Reviewed on 16-01-2023
Ellisa Park(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 03-12-2022 My husband and I got married at Whitby Castle on December 3rd! Whitby was the first and only venue we saw in person when we started looking for venues for our wedding. Niki and Ralph were so helpful and responsive! We really loved the holiday decor they had around the castle on our wedding day. It made our wedding feel more romantic and beautiful! The food and service was great! Reviewed on 24-12-2022
Julia Marra(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-12-2022 The Whitby Castle exceeded all our expectations from the setting, the ambiance, the decor, to the food and staff and just so much more. Getting married here felt like “home” the entire night and was just such a magical experience that we will remember for the rest of our lives. Stunning, charming and the staff that you work with leading up to your day and during your day is unmatched, they are the best of the best and we were lucky to have worked with them. Thank you, Whitby Castle! Reviewed on 17-12-2022
Deanna Fiore(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 20-10-2022 whitby castle was THE BEST decision we made when it came to booking our wedding venue! my husband and I got married on October 20th, 2022 a beautifully sunny yet chilly day and i could not have asked for a better place to have our ceremony and reception. we decided too book the whitby castle because it checked off all we were looking for. 1. one wedding venue2. on-site ceremony3. breathtaking grounds4. unique venue location 5. and overall AMAZING STAFFfrom the start Niki was absolutely amazing and accommodating, communicating with me and the gazillion questions I had about every aspect of the wedding. our 80 email chain was never ending but I couldn't thank her enough for getting back to me quickly and answering all my questions.our wedding ceremony and reception were beautiful, the staff and Ralph ( maitre'd) amazing, and the food from cocktail hour to dinner and dessert was delicious. we did have several hiccups throughout the day from getting ready at the venue and the heat not being on, to an incorrect appetizer that was served to our guests as the first course of our reception. when this was pointed out to Ralph he IMMEDIATELY ran to the kitchen to find out what happened only to discover there was a different chef, and he apologized thoroughly providing us with an extra bar and bartender for our day which was much appreciated. even with those hiccups the day was perfect and Ralph and his team had everything moving smoothly! they helped set items up and even packed them away at the end of the night, organized pictures with the photographer and really made sure all guests and bridal party were taken care of!I've had multiple guests come up to us over the weeks and reach out over the phone stating how beautiful the wedding was and the location was unlike any other wedding theyve been too!whitby castle is truly a gem in the wedding world and I would do it again just to experience another night dancing away in a castle with my husband.I cannot thank them enough, and I would recommend them to any bride that is looking to get married in the Hudson Valley area! Reviewed on 13-11-2022
Mariella Haubs(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-10-2022 The Whitby deserves every raving review it gets! We got married there a week ago and we were so impressed by their services. Our wedding was totally behind, because guests arrived late from the ceremony, but the Whitby made the most seamless adjustments. Our guests didn’t even notice all the little things that happened! The food was delicious, their communication leading up to the day so timely and professional. They took perfect care of me when I was running out of steam day-of. The views are gorgeous. It really feels like a fairytale princess wedding. Our guests were so impressed! They even let us stay a little later even though there was another wedding, so that we could take couple photos in front of the castle which we had no time for beforehand. We highly recommend them and would get married there all over again! Reviewed on 31-10-2022
Danielle Raskin(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 13-10-2022 Nikki, Ralph and Roxy made everything absolutely seamless for our wedding. Everything went off perfectly and I wouldn’t change a thing. Our guests were especially impressed with the food (and we loved how easy it was to have food we loved served by the venue without having to find an outside caterer. The petite filet was extremely tender!)We highly recommend this venue and wouldn’t have changed a thing! Reviewed on 21-10-2022
Jessica Scotti(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 01-09-2022 If you are thinking about making Whitby Castle your wedding venue, this is your sign to lock it in right now! Every single one of their staff outdid themselves and made our special day even more amazing. Niki helped us with the entire process and she responded very quickly to any of our questions or concerns. Ralph and Roxy organized our wedding night to be absolutely perfect and beyond what we envisioned in our heads. Our wedding was over a month ago and we still have guests talking about the amazing food the chefs prepared. The biggest plus of this venue is they only have one wedding per night. So if you want to feel like a princess who is going to marry her prince, this is the place!! Reviewed on 11-10-2022
Jacqueline Dalfonso Speer(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-08-2022 Niki and Ralph were excellent with helping us make our wedding a reality! They helped make the wedding process so much easier! Niki and Ralph were both very attentive with answering our questions and with explaning the wedding process! To all brides and grooms, you will be in great hands at Whitby Castle! We had our wedding reception in August 2022 at Whitby and it was the best day ever! The food, service, and location was outstanding! All of our guests loved the beautiful venue and food! Everything was flawless! There was no worries! The best part is Niki, Ralph and staff will do everything they can to make the day as stress free as possible! We highly recommend Whitby Castle to all brides and grooms to be! Thank you Niki, Ralph and Whitby Castle for an amazing, loving and great experience! It was the best day ever for Dan and I! - The Speer’s 08/11/2022 Reviewed on 11-10-2022
Mia Orobona(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-09-2022 Our whole wedding day at Whitby was magical, I keep expecting to wake up from a dream! Niki and Ralph (and all of the staff) are not only super-human professionals but are also so kind, fun, and lovely to work with. From the very beginning of planning, Niki was a huge help and answered every question I could throw at her -- I always felt confident that we were in very experienced hands. The whole wedding day ran totally seamlessly, and Ralph was literally always ready with a solution to any hiccup (i.e. my brother's shoe falling apart pre-ceremony!) All our guests raved all night about how awesome the food and experience were, and we never had any moments where we worried about anything the venue was in charge of. I'm not sure how people choose any other venues for their weddings when the perfect place exists at Whitby! It's the total package. Reviewed on 23-09-2022
Anllie Francisco(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 08-09-2022 Whitby Castle was the perfect venue for my wedding. From beginning to end, Niki, the sales manager was so amazing and sweet, answering all of my endless questions, Ralph the Maitre’ D and team the day of wedding were so amazing! The day was perfect!!! Reviewed on 23-09-2022
Amy Wong(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-08-2022 My husband and I got married at Whitby in August and if we could give 6 stars we would. The venue is beautiful, the staff is amazing, and we got countless compliments about the food.Ralph couldn’t have been easier to work with. He was kind, accommodating, and was effortless in his management of the night. Due to the August heat, we decided last minute to move our ceremony inside - Ralph was able to get this done for us with a smile on his face (despite the fact that I’m sure this was stressful). He worked with the DJ to ensure there was never a dull moment and that things were timed well so that we could enjoy cocktail hour and the reception, including having a tray prepared from cocktail hour for my husband and I to enjoy before mingling with our guests.We are secretly hoping that one of our friends will get married at Whitby so that we can enjoy it from the perspective of a guest - it was really an unforgettable night for all involved and we couldn’t be happier on our decision to get married at Whitby! Reviewed on 18-09-2022
Lauren Minisci(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-08-2022 Whitby Castle is an absolutely amazing wedding venue! From the charm and romantic details of the architecture, to the delicious food and drinks, and exceptional staff and service, this venue exceeded all of our expectations. Niki was especially helpful during the planning process, answering all our questions quickly and providing flexibility when we requested. Ralph was on top of every operational detail for our big day, giving us the utmost confidence that the calendar of events would run smoothly. Our wedding could not have been more perfect thanks to everyone at Whitby. If you’re looking for a venue that’s more than the typical ‘wedding factory’, look no further! Reviewed on 15-09-2022
Latish Gilbert(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-06-2021 Niki & Ralph were extremely too good us. We were having so many issues leading up to our wedding date, especially dealing with COVID restrictions & procedures. We began working with Niki pre-COVID who was absolutely exceptional. Uncle Ralph became our rock during COVID and held our hands into our wedding. The staff at Whitby Castle is amazing and made our wedding memorable, we couldn't have done it without them, literally. Reviewed on 29-08-2022
Nicole and Jeremy S(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-07-2022 Niki and Ralph were the most amazing team that made our wedding day INCREDIBLE. Niki was extremely helpful throughout the whole process. She was easy to work with and met any requests we may have had. Ralph was absolutely amazing the day of the wedding. We believe everything went smoothly because he had his eyes on everything. Part of what made the day memorable was Ralph and his personality. Our families loved him and we can’t imagine a better team and nicer people to work with for such an event in one’s life. We received so many compliments on how everything was put together and ran. We honestly could say that we went into the day with no worries or stress because everything was handled. As for the venue, it was an absolute dream to get married at the Whitby. The food tasting was spectacular. We received full portions of each entree that we chose and the quality and taste was just as good if not better the day of our wedding. The skirt steak was beyond amazing! We were lucky enough to get married on the lawn with the beautiful view of the castle. Everything was set up just the way we wanted. Cocktail hour was beautifully done outside on the patio with views of the golf course. Last but not least, we wanted to give a special shout out to our bridal attendant Rosa. She held my dress and made it look good right before I walked down the aisle and even bustled it for me in the middle of cocktail hour. She went above and beyond and we really appreciated her kindness and hard work. Reviewed on 22-08-2022
Lisa Amoreno(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 23-07-2022 Whitby Castle was the perfect location for our wedding. Niki was super helpful and answered all of my many questions quickly and efficiently. When it came time to meet with Ralph, he was so nice and a pleasure to work with. He went over all of the details of our wedding to make sure the day went off without a hitch. Everything the day of was absolutely perfect. All of the notes and directions given to the wedding day coordinator ended up being perfect and exactly how imagined. My guests were so please and had nothing but good things to say about the venue, the food and the service. I would highly reccomend this venue! Reviewed on 16-08-2022
Maxine Squires(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 20-03-2022 Whitby Castle is gorgeous and the team was incredible to work with. Niki was fantastic to work with - she answered all of our questions (and we had lots) and is a true professional. Ralph's energy is infectious and he's exactly who you want running the show on your wedding day. He is on top of everything. My guests are STILL (4 months later) talking about the food (portions were huge) and the synchronized table service. Truly an incredible place. Reviewed on 07-08-2022
Kyle M(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 16-07-2022 We are so happy that we chose Whitby Castle as our wedding venue! Niki and Ralph were a joy to work with and made sure everything was taken care of. The day went flawlessly thanks to all the hard work of the Whitby staff! Beautiful building and grounds, delicious food, we could not have asked for anything more! Reviewed on 23-07-2022
Jamie Smith(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 02-07-2022 Whitby Castle was a truly gorgeous and amazing venue for a wedding! You can't ask for a better backdrop than the castle itself for your ceremony and photoshoot, and the inside is just as beautiful. We were floored when we saw the way the ballroom was set up for our reception. We also love the way the cocktail hour is set up - it begins in the corridor and leads out onto the deck, with the welcome glass of champagne and food stations in multiple locations as you enter. Our guests told us they loved the way they kept being surprised by more food stations! The food was also delicious, as many of our guests agreed.In addition to being the perfect venue, the staff at Whitby are also extremely friendly and accommodating. They were easy to reach and receptive to the many, many questions we had leading up to the big day. They were able to provide everything we asked for with ease, and day-of, our maitre d' Ralph made sure everything ran smoothly. Everything went off without a hitch and we didn't need to worry about a thing. Both he and Niki, who we worked with a lot leading up to the event, were two of the nicest people you could ask for. Reviewed on 16-07-2022
Shirley D(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 16-06-2022 We're still living on Cloud 9 after our wedding at Whitby Castle. From the moment we toured the venue we knew it was the perfect setting for our wedding. Niki, Ralph, Roxie, and the entire team were incredible to work with. Niki answered all our questions (and we had so many). Ralph kept the wedding day running smoothly and kept the entire wedding party so calm! Roxie was a dream, such an attentive and caring bridal attendant. The venue was beautiful and the food was amazing--our guests keep calling us to say how much they loved the food and cake. Our wedding day was perfect, a dream come true, and the team at Whitby Castle was truly the best!! Looking forward to returning to Whitby again! Reviewed on 23-06-2022
Keely Mohin(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-06-2022 Whitby is AMAZING! Nikki, Ralph and the entire team made our wedding process completely stress free and so much fun. We received RAVE REVIEWS from our guests on the venue, the food, and the service. We could not be happier with how our wedding went. I'm honestly sad that our wedding is over and we don't have an excuse to work with the team more. If you want great good, amazing service, a beautiful spot, and fair prices, look no further than Whitby Castle. Reviewed on 22-06-2022
Alexandra Colonna(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 26-05-2022 If looking for a seamless, affordable, DELICIOUS and completely luxurious wedding experience - look no further than Whitby. I cannot recommend this venue and the staff who work here enough. A week ago today we enjoyed the royal wedding of our dreams. It was the most incredible and insanely special day and not at all by accident! Since choosing Whitby as our venue for its connection with Whitby / Whitby Abbey in the UK (my husband is British) - Niki, Gabriel, Ralph, Rosa and Leanna all played a part in helping us ensure everything we wanted, we had. I had chosen at the start of our wedding planning process to organize all elements myself. Only hiring a DJ / live sax, jazz quartet for cocktail hour, photographer and videographer - I did the rest myself... no planner, no florist, nada. And so over the course of the past 15 months, while working I created centerpieces, floral arches and pooled together all the decor we used to turn Whitby into OUR castle for the day. Managing a majority of the planning myself was hard work - but the Whitby dream team made it easy... answering ALL my questions by e-mail and working with us on all fronts to ensure our day considered everything important to us. Every single ask they found a solution for. And I mean EVERY ASK. From ensuring the outside flower pots contained beautiful fresh flowers, reviewing our timeline queries, and welcoming us each and every time we popped in sometimes just to say hello when I was in town from London (!) - through to accommodating our schedules for my wedding decor drop off, set up and pickup, allowing our darling dog to stay in the Grooms room during our reception so she could take part in photos, shlepping us around with their golf cart and bringing beers / drinks to us during photos... my God. And the list goes on! The tremendous and genuine effort they made for us was truly outstanding and was worth every penny. From day one, they all as a team made my family, husband and I feel so cared about which to me is worth its weight in gold. We were not yet another Whitby wedding on your roster, but THE Colonna Grout Whitby Wedding.So if this venue is even remotely up your ally, don't hesitate. BOOK IT! The service, the FOOD, the ambience and cost cannot be rivaled. And having scoured a majority of venues across the Hudson valley and Connecticut I can assure you - there is no better place to have your special day! Reviewed on 02-06-2022
Jessamine Schwartz(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 15-05-2022 We had such a beautiful wedding at Whitby Castle and could not be happier with our experience working with them. We looked at a lot of venues that left something to be desired – they were too small, hosted multiple events at the same time, etc. But when we walked into the ballroom at Whitby, we immediately fell in love and booked shortly after. Every room is beautiful, especially the ballroom and outdoor terrace, making it a great choice for a partially outdoor event. We had no problems postponing our date with them due to the pandemic. Niki was so friendly and always available to answer my (often very specific and anxious) questions. Ralph helped run our day to the minute, with a sense of humor. He checked on us throughout the wedding day to make sure things were happening when and how we wanted. We used an outside caterer and, from all we could see, they worked together seamlessly. Our guests were as happy as we were. I'm so glad we found Whitby, and we would recommend it wholeheartedly, whether you're having a wedding or other kind of celebration. Reviewed on 02-06-2022
M&A K(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 21-05-2022 Book your wedding here!! We had our wedding this past weekend after having to postpone it a year due to COVID (which they were very willing to accommodate). Everything ran so smoothly! Ralph and Niki are SO friendly/personable and guide you seamlessly through the entire process. They were always available to answer any questions. All of our guests raved about the food. Our bridal attendant Rosa was also amazing and made sure that we got to eat literally everything (seriously - I think she gave us about 6 plates of food from the cocktail hour at our table, and Ralph got us a huge plate of the desserts at the end). I really cannot say enough nice things about Whitby and the staff. They made our experience and our entire wedding wonderful. I would recommend them to anyone! Reviewed on 24-05-2022
Alex McCahill(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 08-01-2022 My husband and I had our wedding here in January of 2022. The food was amazing, the staff is amazing, the reception hall was perfect. Niki and Ralph are so easy to work with and accommodating, chef Dante was brilliant, and we even had a staff member (Willy we are so thankful) pull us aside during cocktail hour to make sure we ate!!! My husband has a gluten allergy and they worked with us effortlessly. So very thankful to them ! Reviewed on 13-05-2022
Kristi DeName(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 15-04-2022 From the moment my husband and I stepped into Whitby Castle and met with Niki, we immediately felt at ease. We had a sense of relief and excitement all mixed in one--we had found our venue! We knew it instantly. The venue and the grounds are absolutely stunning. The fact that it's an actual castle built in the 1800s is amazing. You truly feel as if you are in England, far away from everything. Our guests are raving about the INCREDIBLE food from start to finish (the Chef is SO sweet and talented), the magic and romance of the day, the flawless team running it all--RALPH, our maitre d', was simply fantastic. He kept us on track the entire night. He's fun and personable, yet professional, and you can tell he has done this a million times--but still enjoys every moment. My Bridal Attendant Stefanie was absolutely God sent. We had the most perfect day, straight out of a movie. We were beyond elated to see our dreams come true. Everything you can think of--communication, help, professionalism, incredible food, gorgeous views, countless photo opportunities, generosity, talented & friendly staff, and a stunning place to get married--is found at Whitby Castle. Reviewed on 20-04-2022
Nicolle Domenici-Vega(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 12-02-2022 Niki, Ralph, and the whole staff at Whitby made our wedding dreams come true. They were accommodating, quick with responses to emails, and overall extremely helpful with my planning process. The venue itself is beautiful and the food was the best I’ve ever had. I would do it all over again tomorrow if I could. Thank you all so much for the best day of our lives!! Reviewed on 05-04-2022
Christine Calafiore(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 19-03-2022 My husband and I had our wedding at Whitby Castle on 3/19/22 and we couldn't be happier with our decision. From when we first met with Niki in October 2020 through our wedding, the staff was always prepared and professional. Whitby has all the options and answers to all of your questions and the staff pay great attention to detail. They met and exceeded our needs and always with a smile on their faces. Niki and Ralph work together like a well-oiled machine. The chef, Fernando, cooks with such love and care that you could taste it through his food and was enjoyed by all of our guests. Everything was artful while also delicious. Gabriel was so attentive to us during our tasting and the whole night of our wedding to make sure we were always happy. Gabriel's smile can only be met with more smiles. We loved the space which has such natural beauty that you need not worry about budgeting for anything else. You're not going to find another castle, on a golf course, on the Sound ever. This is the one. It's beautiful, the staff is excellent, and you'll be happy with your decision to have your wedding or other event at Whitby. Thank you Niki, Ralph, Fernando, Gabriel and Whitby family for everything! Reviewed on 26-03-2022
Nora Favre(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 15-01-2022 From the beginning stages of setting up a tour till the day after the wedding. Every person who works at Whitby Castle is incredible!!! Niki & Ralph are the best you will get! Responsive, informative, relatable, fun, knowledgeable!!! I can’t say enough of how much they did for us leading up to and day of wedding. The day of staff was incredibly friendly, engaging and attentive they did not miss a beat! Alll of our guest complimented how amazing the food was, how friendly the staff was, and how incredibly gorgeous the venue was!!! You absolutely will not be disappointed here! Reviewed on 16-03-2022
Gabrielle Pontillo(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 05-03-2022 Please read my/our glowing review for Whitby Castle below:Whitby Castle was phenomenal and a godsend. Firstly we're both from NY originally but moved to Maryland shortly after getting engaged and let me tell you that wedding planning from a different state is a nightmare BUT when we were browsing venues, we set up an appointment to tour Whitby with Niki (who is a total sweetheart) and due to pandemic issues Niki was unable to join us for the tour but told us to explore the castle at our leisure. The vibe of the venue: 10/10. We drove up to the Castle and were immediately blown away by the atmosphere outside. THEN we stepped inside and fell even more in love. The ballroom was so light, airy and warm; it was completely inviting. So of course we booked! Niki answered each and every tiny question I had with a completely positive attitude and for that I was very grateful! The food: 10/10 would recommend. When we had our tasting my now-husband turned to me and said \"I hope the food at the wedding is half as good as this\" because as we all know, most wedding food is average at best. NOT at Whitby. The food on the day itself was absolutely delicious! I'm sad we missed cocktail hour but I heard nothing but positive things from my guests regarding the food.Ralph and the staff: 11/10. Ralph was professional, hilarious and accommodating to every little whim I had for my perfect day. He was the organization to our chaos and we would've been lost without him. The rest of the staff at the venue was extremely pleasant and efficient. The waiter who helped us as our tasting was there on the day of and rememberd us and was very happy to see us again which was sweet! I seriously recommend this venue for anyone looking to host a smaller but luxe wedding. We ultimately had around 110 guests and it felt intimate but no one was stuck on top of each other either (which is super important in a Covid world). We definitely could've had another table or two of guests but I'm glad it worked out the way it did! Reviewed on 12-03-2022
Mary Ann Gazivoda(other)5 out of 5 Rating
Our bridal shower was a complete success! Starting with Yasmin, she worked with me from start to finish. Very professional , efficient and kind❤️🌹she promptly answered all my calls and emails, any silly question I had. She made me feel confident that everything was going to be perfect. The castle stands with charm and beauty on its own but the staff, the food and service are outstanding. Everyone loved it! Thank you all who made it so perfect! Reviewed on 08-03-2022
Christine Angell(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 31-12-2021 Everything about our experience at Whitby exceeded our expectations. Niki was so professional, friendly and responsive from our first visit to the castle. Omicron started spiking about 2 weeks before our wedding and Niki went above and beyond to accommodate last-minute changes to our event. Ralph was fantastic and made sure that every day of detail was coordinated down to the minute. He was so organized and made sure that everything ran smoothly. Ralph is so professional and the night was executed perfectly because of his attention to detail. Our guests are still raving about the quality and quantity of the food and were so impressed by the service, from the waitstaff to the bartenders. Every staff member at Whitby was so friendly and accommodating to all of our guests and added a personal touch that made the night so special. Thank you so much to Niki, Ralph, and the entire team at Whitby! Reviewed on 28-01-2022
Gabriella R(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-11-2021 From the beginning my husband and I knew that we wanted to get married at a unique and beautiful venue that was like none of the other typical catering halls we saw in the NY/Westchester area . As soon as we walked into the Whitby Castle we knew that this was the place that we were going to get married at! From initial planning all the way through to our tasting and day of set up the entire Whitby Castle staff (special shout out to Nikki, Ralph and Will!) truly exceeded our expectations for the most amazing wedding day we could ask for. There are so many unique and special touches to this venue and it’s set up that it truly felt like we were at our home hosting our friends and family celebrating our wedding. We were able to utilize the back wraparound porch for our cocktail hour even on an early November night with heating lamps and the unique flow of the food stations allowed for each of our guests to truly take in all of the sights. Our guests have all raved about the food including every cocktail hour station that was served including some picky family members and specifically some had mentioned that they’ve never had such a fresh and hot meal served at a wedding before. Ralph truly brought the whole night together and worked with our DJ to coordinate each point of the night. He also was able to seamlessly set up all of the decor that we brought in (& we definitely brought a lot) - I know some other venues are hesitant to do that so we really appreciated the extra touch. The Whitby is such a picturesque location conveniently located off major highways in the area for ease of transportation- which our out of state guests appreciated. Overall we could not have asked for a more amazing day and wedding venue from start to finish and truly would do it all over again in a heartbeat! Thank you so much to Whitby Castle staff !!! Reviewed on 22-01-2022
Cindy Marshall(other)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-12-2021 Just had my daughter’s Wedding at Whitby Castle and it was remarkable. Perfect in every aspect of the word. They could not have been more accommodating, the food was delicious from the hors d'oeuvres to the dessert and everything in between, fabulous! Top notch food, gorgeous venue and the service was terrific. So very happy we were able to have our special event at such a wonderful magical place. The kind that usually only dreams are made of! Reviewed on 07-01-2022
Stella L(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 21-11-2021 We got married at the end of November and are still hearing compliments from friends and family about what a wonderful wedding we had at such a beautiful venue! Niki, Ralph and the whole team at Whitby Castle did such a phenomenal job bringing all of our planning and efforts into reality. We had originally booked our wedding to be November of last year but had ultimately decided to postpone due to COVID. Niki was absolutely wonderful during this whole process where they had offered us to select a backup date. If another couple were interested in that date, Niki said that we would be informed as to whether we wanted to switch to the backup date or select a secondary one. Ultimately, we made the call to postpone our wedding date by June 2020 for November 2021 and Whitby Castle was incredibly accommodating and did not charge us to do so. We had heard of many pandemic couples who weren't given the same courtesy so that alone made us so much more confident in the team we were working with. Niki also worked with us to open the bridal suite an hour earlier than the normal time block would allow so that the girls and I could get ready sooner which made a huge impact on our day. Our meeting with Ralph really helped solidify the plans for the wedding day. The food was absolutely fantastic at cocktail hour and at dinner. We would highly recommend getting the Syrah braised short ribs as an entrée as they were an absolute hit with our guests (and ourselves). My one cousin even commented that this was the best food he had ever had at a wedding and he's been to quite a lot which was certainly high praise! If you like great food, a beautiful venue, and an unparalleled team to work with, look no further than Whitby Castle! Reviewed on 30-12-2021
Liz Sulger(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 15-10-2021 We had our wedding ceremony and reception both at Whitby in Oct. 2021 and it exceeded our expectations. Ralph, Niki and the rest of the Whitby staff were wonderful, organized, and helped the day flow smoothly. As other reviews say, the food was excellent and we had guests mention how much they enjoyed the food after our event.We couldn't have been happier with Whitby and we wouldn't hesitate to recommend this venue to our friends and family. Reviewed on 27-12-2021
Olivia D(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 13-11-2021 Where do I begin... ever since we set foot at Whitby, I had a feeling this venue was the one for us. After meeting Niki, this was confirmed. Niki was extremely friendly and helpful. She answered every question we had and was quick to respond to emails etc. From scheduling to the tasting, I felt very secure working with Niki throughout the entire process. A few weeks before our big day, we met Ralph (Operations manager) who was also exceptional. He truly made the day seamless and I didn't feel any stress whatsoever as I knew I was in good hands. Ralph was also very responsive to answer any questions we had. Thank you Niki, Ralph and all the Whitby staff for making our day one we will never forget!! Reviewed on 25-11-2021
Kim Giordano(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 30-10-2021 We just had our dream wedding at Whitby Castle on October 30, 2021. We couldn’t have asked for a better experience. Nikki and Ralph were both extremely helpful, answered questions in a timely manner and brought our vision to life. We continue to receive the best compliments from our guests. We really can’t recommend them enough and wish we could get married here all over again! Reviewed on 17-11-2021
Catie E(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 17-10-2021 From start to finish, Niki, Ralph, and their entire team did an amazing job to make Whitby Castle the most perfect wedding venue we could have found. When looking for a venue, the castle hit all of our requirements - full weather protection, something unique, and no stuffy ballrooms without windows. The incredible staff was an added bonus! Starting with our venue tour, Niki was prompt with answering any and all questions we had about the castle, logistics of the day, and planning needs to coordinate with our vendors. A few weeks before the wedding, we met with Ralph to go over our day-of details and we immediately knew we were in good hands. We custom-made most of our decorations and Ralph and his team did an impeccable job making our vision a reality. Our guests and families are still raving about the food (which is to die for), the extensive cocktail hour spread, the amazing synchronized serving of dinner, and the attention to detail throughout the entire night. We're still floating from our wedding night at the castle and could not be happier to recommend an amazing venue with an even more amazing staff. Reviewed on 17-11-2021
Madi D’Aquanni(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 24-10-2021 I just got married October 24, 2021I don’t know where to start! Right from meeting with Niki when we were setting the date to the day of was nothing but amazing! Niki and Ralph made it so simple! Phone calls and emails were answered ASAP.All the questions we had were answered Now day of. I did not want the night to end! It was the most PERFECT day and I can not thank the Whitby staff enough they were all amazing. A week later my husband and I and my family are still getting phone calls and texts about the Whitby, the food and the staff! I highly recommend The Whitby to any bride to be, or even special event. Thank you for making our special day absolutely amazing! Reviewed on 03-11-2021
Courtney Quinn(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 25-09-2021 We just got married at Whitby Castle on Saturday and I could not thank the staff enough for making it the most perfect day for us. From day one, Niki was responsive with all of our questions and so patient with us. Planning a wedding during a global pandemic was not fun but everyone at Whitby made us feel so much more at ease. Our wedding guests could not stop raving about Ralph and how on top of everything he was. We met Ralph to go over wedding logistics a few weeks before the big day and he had everything under control. I am a major type A bride and after sitting down with Ralph and going over all my questions and concerns, I knew we were in great hands. He went above and beyond the day of our wedding to not only make sure we were taken care of but he made she all the guests were as well. Whitby Castle is a beautiful place to get married and the staff made it so much better. For all brides looking to book a venue, you have to book at Whitby! I promise you it will be the best decision you ever make. Wedding planning is stressful enough as it is but having a great team wanting to make your dreams become a reality is worth it. Reviewed on 28-09-2021
Judy Canetti(other)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 21-08-2021 After being given instructions by our daughter and future son-in-law to find a castle to get married in, we began our extensive search. Since they both work at the Magic Kingdom in Disney World, they wanted their own castle to celebrate their marriage! We visited many venues, but none brought the spark to their eyes. And then we happened upon a review by one of our son's friends, who had recently gotten married at the Whitby. We made an appointment and fell in love as soon as we drove up. This was THE castle! From the first look outside and then inside, we knew this was the place that would make their day memorable. We worked with Niki, scheduled the date.....and then COVID hit! With Niki's help, we were able to postpone it twice....but the third time was the charm!! From the incredible food tasting a month before, hosted by Jasmine, we knew this would be a wonderful day. Although COVID had a resurgence shortly before the wedding day, the care Maitre 'D Ralph took to ensure that our day would be the most wonderful ever was, without question, beyond our wildest dreams. From start to finish, he had everything under control like clockwork precision. The food was delicious and so beautifully prepared and presented. Our guests could not say enough about how much they enjoyed the day. The attention he and his staff paid to every detail was so much appreciated. We highly recommend that you visit the Whitby and see what a wonderful venue it is to make your day an extraordinary celebration! Reviewed on 28-08-2021
Danielle Bretz(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 07-08-2021 When planning for our wedding, we made sure to research for the perfect venue. The Whitby was the first location we looked at and we fell absolutely in love. It is open, airy, and has a beautiful backdrop for photos (a perfectly manicured golf course and the Sound in the background). However, we didn't want to lock down the first place we saw. We looked at other venues across NY and NJ but nothing could compare to the Whitby. We kept comparing other venues to it and finally decided that this was the venue for us. While we did not have our ceremony on site, the front grass area is picturesque for an outdoor ceremony (the castle in the background). The cocktail hour is out on their wraparound porch and allows guest to get fresh air if they need throughout the night. Ralph and Niki were awesome to work with. Leading up to planning, Niki answered any and all questions that I had. When we had to postpone our wedding due to COVID, the process was very simple and we did not have a hard time (unlike other brides I knew at other venues). This goes to show how professional and caring they are. Ralph (Maitre'd) was an absolute rockstar and made sure our event ran smoothly the night of. He checked in on us throughout the night, made sure we had all of our cocktail hour set on the table (since of course we missed it while taking photos), had high energy, and was supportive of both my husband and I at all points. Our guests could not stop telling us how great the food was the entire night and are still raving about it (and they have very high standards). It was important that we had good food and good atmosphere -- and both were even better than we could have imagined. All of our guests left having an amazing time and enjoyed the beauty of the castle and taste of the food! Overall, I cannot recommend having your wedding or event at the Whitby enough! Reviewed on 10-08-2021
Morgan Lazar(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 29-07-2021 My husband and I got married on July 29, 2021 at The Whitby Castle and it was perfect! Ralph and Niki were fantastic and made sure the night was amazing. Ralph is such a pro at what he does. He made sure that things ran smoothly and there was never a moment where I felt like I needed to do something myself, everything was already done, even before I had to ask. Our guests are still raving over the night, a week later. I would absolutely pick The Whitby Castle if you are looking for a place that is completely organized and wants to make your night perfect! Reviewed on 05-08-2021
Nicole McGowan(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 24-07-2021 I can't thank the Whitby team enough, especially Niki and Ralph for helping us host the most amazing wedding I could have ever imagined at the Whitby Castle. Unfortunately, due to COVID-19 we did have to postpone from last July 4th 2020 to this July 24th, 2021. The fact that we were able to postpone to another Saturday night in itself was amazing and beyond lucky! They were extremely helpful with the entire process of moving our wedding. They truly made it so seamless (They even honored their 2020 prices which was INCREDIBLE). The event itself was beyond expectations. The food was amazing, the setup was amazing and the staff was beyond helpful and amazing. We did add a lot to our wedding with extra cocktail hour stations and a Mister softee truck for dessert. Ralph made sure to make this all flow extremely well. I am so happy I booked with the Whitby Castle and Lessings property. It was really the perfect day. Reviewed on 04-08-2021
KATHLEEN BRUCAS(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-05-2021 A little late for this review! We were married May 22, 2021 here at Whitby and the wedding was perfect! We unfortunately were a \"Covid couple\" and had to postpone from our original wedding date; however the venue (Niki our contact) made the process easy and stress free. The food was amazing, the drinks were great. Our guests are still talking about how gorgeous the venue was and how great of a wedding it was! Working with Ralph the few weeks prior to the wedding also went amazing. Ralph and Niki were always so helpful and accommodating. It was a pleasure to be able to work with them and I always suggest this venue for other couples when I can. Reviewed on 03-08-2021
Blake Presar(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 30-07-2021 We had an amazing wedding at Whitby Castle. Ralph and the staff on site were phenomenal and we are forever grateful for a seamless and joyous day! We would highly recommend the venue for any special event! Reviewed on 03-08-2021
Allison Antonucci(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 18-07-2021 We just got married yesterday at Whitby Castle and are still stunned by how amazing our day was. First of all, Ralph is nothing short of spectacular. You are in GREAT hands with him. So many members of our family and bridal party found him to be so personable and easy to work with. The food was unbelievable, and the castle is stunning. I couldn’t imagine our special day at any other location. Thank you, Whitby Castle!!! Reviewed on 20-07-2021
Gina Raus(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-07-2021 Our wedding at Whitby Castle on 7/11/2021 was an absolute DREAM! Niki, Ralph, and the entire staff at Whitby Castle were incredible throughout our entire wedding planning process. My husband and I had to change our wedding date three times over the past year, and the entire staff was always there to answer any questions that we had, and to assure us that everything was going to work out! On the day of our wedding, everything ran seamlessly! Niki and Ralph ensured that everything was set up in the bridal suite for the women the night before for our arrival, my bridal attendant Rosa was there for anything that we needed as we were getting ready, and our maître d’, Jasmin, was there every single step of the way throughout the day! All of the staff made me feel so comfortable, and at ease on my wedding day – I couldn’t ask for anything more! I truly could not say more amazing things about the Niki, Ralph, Jasmin, Rosa, and the entire staff at Whitby Castle. Thank you for making our wedding day unforgettable! Reviewed on 14-07-2021
Nicole Wizel(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-06-2021 Our wedding at Whitby was perfect!!! We had to delay twice due to COVID, and Nikki/Whitby staff could not have been more compassionate, understanding, and easy to work with in spite of the uncertain circumstances. They made the delays/rescheduling MUCH lest stressful, and I will be forever grateful for that. Ralph was amazing in the days leading up to the wedding and the day of - he made sure everything went seamlessly and kept everything calm! The venue itself is absolutely breath taking. We took photos inside of the willow tree, and they came out beautiful. The ceremony photos look like scenes from a fairy tale. The cocktail hour on the patio is perfect, and the ball room is perfectly sized and gorgeous! Everyone raved about how good the food and drinks were. I could not recommend Whitby Castle more - the staff are incredibly accommodating, and I feel so lucky that they were there to support us during our COVID postponements. It shows the true character of the business. Our day was PERFECT and it was all because of Whitby. Reviewed on 13-07-2021
Katherine Cola(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 11-06-2021 The Whitby Castle was the perfect venue for our June 11th wedding! We had to postpone our original wedding date, and Niki Viera, the Catering Sales Manager, did a fantastic job working with us to secure a new date and provide timely updates along the way. Niki communicated with us frequently, was always available, and answered every question under the sun. For us, the Whitby Castle delivered on everything we wanted for our wedding venue. Beautiful grounds, an outdoor cocktail hour setting, a large ballroom with plenty of natural light, high ceilings, and a very large dance floor separate from the dining area, and of course, outstanding food. The menu was very important to us, and we were even allowed a second tasting to improve on selections and get things right. Our guests raved about the food at the cocktail hour, during the sit-down dinner, and even the cake, cookies and to go donuts! We started working with Ralph Bracco, the operations manager, a month or so before the wedding, and WOW is he amazing. Just a very nice person, so easy to work with, really listened to us and was extremely well prepared. He was everywhere the night of the wedding and had every last detail under control. He does an incredible job. A million times over we would pick the Whitby Castle and Lessing's Hospitality Group. It was the best day of our lives! Reviewed on 28-06-2021
Brittany Harbolic(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-05-2021 I cannot say enough about this venue. The grounds are gorgeous, the ballroom is incredible and the staff goes above and beyond. The Maitre'd and the Bridal Attendant are amazing and really know how to take care of you. The food was phenomenal. You will absolutely love this venue! Reviewed on 19-06-2021
Darcy Kottler(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 10-06-2021 We got married at Whitby Castle last week and cannot rave about it enough. We originally were supposed to get married in April 2020 and ended up postponing due to Covid. Niki was wonderful to work with throughout the process of rescheduling our event. In a time of such uncertainty, the level of service we received from the Whitby team made us feel secure in our decision. The day-of could not have been better. Ralph is truly great at what he does. He ran a seamless event, dealt gracefully with some unexpected curveballs, and ultimately did everything he could to give us the best day ever. Rosa was fantastic as well! She was so sweet, accommodating and helpful during the entire day. The food is also really amazing. Every review we read said this and it is really true. Our guests continue to rave about the food. Overall, you cannot go wrong with a wedding at Whitby Castle. Reviewed on 18-06-2021
Sarah Paynter(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 14-03-2021 We could not have had a better experience at Whitby Castle. Everyone who worked there went above and beyond to make sure our day was beautiful. Our livestream wasn't working right before the wedding, and Ralph Bracco, the operations manager, offered to let us try on his personal laptop. Ralph also offered to move our flower arch from the ceremony space to behind our sweetheart table — he didn't have to do that, but he realized it would be nice and jumped on the opportunity. And when we said we'd like to do a few sparklers at our exit, he said he had a few extra-long ones he'd be happy to give us. These were a few of the small ways he went above and beyond what he had to do. On top of that, he was charming with our families, and everyone loved him. My bridal attendant made sure I had everything I needed throughout the day. She was incredibly sweet and attentive.Niki helped us throughout planning. She was totally accommodating, helpful and kind. She even understood and handled it with grace when we thought we might have to cancel the wedding due to COVID. She, and everyone at Whitby, was sensitive and supportive in helping us take COVID precautions.We couldn't have had a better experience, and frankly, I've been procrastinating this review simply because I knew I couldn't do it justice. We're incredibly thankful and will never forget the wonderful service we had on our wedding. And by the way — the venue is gorgeous and the food is good. Reviewed on 13-05-2021
Rosamaria Holewinski(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 17-03-2021 My wedding was everything I dreamt of. The whole staff at Whitby Castle was great. The food was so good and the wedding cake came out beautifully. Niki was amazing she made the whole process of planning the wedding there very easy. Niki was very helpful with any questions/concerns myself and my future husband had. The day of the wedding Sean was very nice I let him know the day of I really wanted my ceremony outside and he had everything all set up for that. Sean was very helpful and kept everything on track. Anything I needed or my future husband needed Sean helped and was really nice . Rosa was also amazing. She helped me with my dress and anything I needed. Rosa is so sweet and is absolutely astounding.I highly recommend having your wedding here. It was really like a fairytale! Reviewed on 10-04-2021
Marie Minasi(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 20-03-2021 To put it simply, every interaction we had with Whitby from the day we first visited the venue to the day of our wedding – whether via e-mail, phone or in-person – was a pleasure. Whitby (and Niki!) were always responsive, communicated clearly, and treated us kindly. The venue is stunning with so much natural light – a true rarity among the area’s indoor venues. The food is also delicious – all our guests were raving about it! At the end of the day, we had a very different wedding than we initially planned due to the ongoing pandemic – the fact that we can honestly say that our special day was everything we hoped for and more despite the change of plans is in a large part due to Whitby and their outstanding service. We would make the same decision again without question! Reviewed on 01-04-2021
Lucy Hanson(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-03-2021 I had my wedding there on 03/27/21. In the middle of a global pandemic, The Whitby still made all my dreams come true. The venue itself is GORGEOUS. The food is absolutely amazing. All of my guests were in awe of how beautiful the venue is & they couldn't stop talking about how good the food is! If you want a fairytale wedding, book The Whitby Castle. Reviewed on 30-03-2021
Shannon Hodges(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 02-01-2021 Beautiful for a wedding!! I had my reception at Whitby in January, and the Castle looked beautiful. Niki is very professional and helpful, the service is great, and the food is amazing! Reviewed on 23-03-2021
Maura Scatenato(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 20-02-2021 Our day was perfect thanks to Whitby Castle and their amazing staff! Everything went perfectly, it was truly a dream come true , cannot thank them enough!!! Reviewed on 28-02-2021
Dana DeFelice(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 06-02-2021 Having our wedding at the Whitby Castle was a dream come true. Even through COVID, Niki and the staff were able to make our day perfect! They were very professional and made everyone feel comfortable, even through these uncomfortable times. Everything was done just the way we discussed, from the decorations to the schedule of the day. Niki made sure everything ran smoothly day of. She is very understanding and tries her best to work with you during these COVID times. Overall, it was the best decision to continue our wedding at the Whitby Castle. Highly recommend! Reviewed on 22-02-2021
Laura Rossetti(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 26-09-2020 From the beginning stages of booking this venue for our wedding, our experience with Whitby Castle was excellent. Our original date was 5/31/20, but we had to postpone and reduce our guest count due to COVID. Niki helped us reschedule our wedding to 9/26/20 and was so helpful about answering our many questions leading up to the date. She kept us informed about the COVID situation and the regulations they would be following to keep everyone safe. Ralph also went through the day's schedule with us prior to the wedding, went over every detail, and was very flexible. Niki and Ralph helped us make our menu as vegan and gluten-free as possible, which we truly appreciated. They gave us so many great options and the food was fantastic! On the wedding day, Ralph was always there to see that everything went smoothly and help us with whatever we needed. Our bridal attendant, Rosa, also went above and beyond for us. When one of our guests had to urgently leave to catch a train, Ralph was there to help and Rosa literally drove her to the train station! We couldn't believe how generous they were. All of the staff were professional, friendly, and followed safety procedures like wearing masks and gloves at all times. Our guests had a great time, and so did we. We highly recommend Whitby Castle. You couldn't ask for a more beautiful venue or a more accommodating staff. Reviewed on 11-10-2020
Matt DeVito(groom)5 out of 5 Rating
Although we haven't been able to have our wedding at Whitby yet due to COVID, this review is mainly for Niki and her continuous help in navigating postponements/rescheduling. We've had to postpone twice now and both times it's been seamless & stress-free thanks to her. It's been a difficult year but we're glad Whitby/Lessings has been so understanding and easy to work with. Can't wait to work with them for the actual wedding! Reviewed on 07-10-2020
Gina D(bride)5 out of 5 Rating
I had my bridal shower at Whitby Castle and I highly recommend having any type of party or event here. From the very beginning Niki, our event coordinator, was super helpful and kind and answered all of my questions. She was amazing to work with and I can't say enough good things about her!! I also want to give a special shoutout to Will because he went above and beyond to make sure my guests were taken care of and all of our guests loved him! He has a passion for what he does and put a smile on everyones face. I will definitely return to Whitby to host another event in the future! Reviewed on 17-09-2020
Zana K(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 07-06-2020 We had our dream wedding planned at Whitby Castle for June 2020 but Covid-19 came along and we ultimately made the decision to cancel our wedding. That said, we are really bummed about having to cancel because Niki has been AMAZING since day one. She was always prompt, very accommodating, patient and understanding of everything we had to deal with.Customer Service is 5 stars!! I truly wish we could have had our wedding there and hope we can host an event there one day. Thanks for everything Niki!! Reviewed on 09-08-2020
Laura Pucci(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 27-09-2019 The Whitby Castle and Lessings are a fantastic company. Literally every detail was well taken care of with a strong background in obvious experience and professionalism. We had almost 200 guests, the ceremony on the lawn and plenty of room for all of us to dance. I understand things are different now with COVID but I would only expect that they would handle this in the best way when it is time for wedding season again. Catering is delishhh and the castle makes you feel at home. Royalty for a day. Highly recommend. Reviewed on 04-08-2020
Samantha Gerhardt(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 13-11-2021 I cannot say enough about Whitby Castle and Niki Viera! Through the craziness and uncertainty of these times, Whitby Castle has been so understanding and fantastic to work with. Niki, is literally the best person to deal with. She is prompt with emails, pleasant, understanding and overall a joy to work with. My fiancé and I, like most couples with a fall wedding are in a tough position about postponing or moving ahead. Niki has given us all of our options, different scenarios and answered all of our questions. Her support and understanding through trying to plan a wedding during COVID, has meant the world to us. If you’re looking for a beautiful venue, and wonderful people to work and plan with Whitby Castle is the perfect place! We may have had to postpone but we are still very excited for our reception in 2021 and feel very supported and taken care of by Niki and the entire staff at the castle! Reviewed on 14-07-2020
Meagan O(bride)5 out of 5 Rating
During this crazy and very difficult time, Whitby Castle has been nothing but the best! We spoke to them many times, sometimes daily, while trying to figure out if we should postpone our wedding due to COVID-19 pandemic and they were nothing but supportive. Any time we spoke to a Whitby Castle representative, they were consistently upbeat, engaged and joyful. Throughout this process, they gave us many options to help us make a final decision. In addition, they openly shared their current plan for hosting events when allowed by state guidelines. Once we made our decision, Whitby made us feel safe with their future plans as well. Whitby was extremely reassuring and patient with us during this difficult time. We couldn’t imagine anywhere else that we would want to spend our special day! Reviewed on 29-06-2020
Liz Blaine(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 23-04-2021 From the moment we walked inside, we knew this is where we wanted to get married. Beautiful, spacious, and no ugly patterned carpet in the ballroom! Lol. We were sold when we saw the wedding packages they offer. Unfortunately, my fiancé and I had to postpone our summer 2020 wedding due to COVID, but I have to say that the sales staff at Whitby has been unbelievable. They have been willing to work with us and so accommodating throughout this whole process (shout out Niki!) and we couldn’t be more thankful. We are so glad we picked Whitby as our wedding venue and can’t wait to get married there. Will write a follow up review after the big day ACTUALLY happens, but wanted to show them some love in the mean time. If you’re thinking about Whitby, you will be in good hands! Reviewed on 16-05-2020
Meghan Desiderio(bride)4 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 07-05-2021 My fiancé and I made the difficult decision to postpone our wedding to next year due to Covid-19. As much as we didn’t want to, we want to ensure the health and safety of each of our guests. Niki and the Whitby Castle Team were so understanding and compassionate and helped us pick a date for next year. Looking forward to getting married at Whitby Castle in May 2021! Reviewed on 15-05-2020
Kaitlin Kelly(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 09-01-2021 Unfortunately, I have had to reschedule my wedding twice due to Covid-19. Each time Niki and her team have been super accommodating and compassionate. They made this very stressful situation so much easier by being very responsive and flexible. I am so glad I chose this venue for my future wedding! Reviewed on 09-05-2020
Bryan Kimmons(groom)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 17-04-2021 As is the case with many couples, my Fiancé and I were faced with the unsettling news that the wedding we had been planning for the past year was going to be postponed due to the recent world events. At a time when things seemed to be in complete shambles, Whitby Castle/Lessings went above and beyond to make sure everything would be ok. Niki was extremely supportive and helpful when reaching out to deliver the news. We were easily able to rebook our event without any concern. She even waived our minimum guest count in the case that guests would no longer be able to attend. Whitby Castle has always been fantastic to work with. Our food tasting was absolutely delicious. Any questions we have, Gabriela and Ralph have answered very quickly (even on the weekends). We couldn't ask for anything better. We are so appreciative of what Whitby Castle has done and can not wait to celebrate our special day. I have the utmost confidence that the team will make sure everything is perfect. Reviewed on 27-04-2020
Frank Roselli(groom)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 29-05-2020 All the staff at Whitby have been amazing from day one, from Gabby to Niki to Sean, everyone has been so accommodating to everything we have needed since day one. Unfortunately for us we have to postpone our wedding due to the COVID 19 pandemic but Whitby has made that simple as well, they have refunded us our deposit without any push back at all. When we decide what we will do moving forward with our wedding, Whitby will be the first call we make. They have really been great every step of the way. Reviewed on 23-04-2020
Jessica Tiano(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 09-07-2021 Our experience with Whitby has been amazing, especially throughout postponing our July 2020 wedding due to the COVID pandemic. I was extremely anxious about postponing and worried we would have to pay more. Our new contract honors the same pricing! Niki immediately put two back-up dates on hold for us while we contacted the rest of our vendors and sent a revised contract the same day we picked our new date. We can't wait for our new date at the castle! Reviewed on 22-04-2020
Emily Horne(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 22-04-2022 My wife and I got married on 04/23/22 and had the most exceptional wedding experience. For starters we had to postpone our wedding twice because of COVID, Whitby was exceedingly accommodating of this and honored our original contract throughout the process. The staff at Whitby are exceptional, Niki was extremely responsive throughout the whole process. Ralph was fun and energetic, he made sure the entire night went according to plan and that we didn't have to worry about a single thing. The food was exceptional and the castle itself is stunning. Could not have more positive things to say about this venue Reviewed on 17-04-2020
Dana Molloy(bride)4 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 14-03-2020 We were just recently married at Whitby last month - possibly the last wedding before the pandemic!We booked Whitby's all inclusive package which made planning so easy. I knew I would be way overwhelmed trying to pick vendors that it was so nice to be able to cross off a bunch of items at once. It was also really great attending Whitby's open house and getting a chance to meet the vendors before we committed to working with them. The crew at Whitby couldn't of been more helpful. While we ran into some issues as things progressed, they did their absolute best to treat us right and make our day special. Ralph is beyond amazing. I want him to work every event I ever attend from here on out! The day of the wedding couldn't have gone more seamless from a bride's perspective. So many things I would never even think of - the staff took care of. I was a little disappointed because we had the late night snack option but many of our guests told us that they had no idea it was even available because no one told them. And being so busy the whole night, I missed out on certain aspects of the cocktail hour and other goodies that were available. The food was excellent and I would love to go back to the restaurant or book future events at the castle. As much as some things were stressful and I could've really blown a gasket about certain things not going the way I had planned, the time spent at the actual reception couldn't have been more perfect. Thanks to all at Whitby for an amazing day. Reviewed on 09-04-2020
Sara Dydyn(bride)5 out of 5 Rating Wedding Date 08-11-2019 I am absolutely blown away by Whitby Castle, Ralph, and the staff. They are professional, kind and truly think of every detail. They went out of their way to make the day special. I cannot recommend this venue enough for your special day. They worked so hard to make my wedding day the dream that it was and I will be forever grateful to them and their staff. Reviewed on 11-02-2020